An Image Worthy of the "Porn for Women" Calendar ~

The new potential didn't show up. I am always amazed at the way some jerks can offer to "do anything for you" one night, promising you their undying service and devotion, saying that you are everything that they have every wanted, etc., etc., etc. only to turn around the next day (literally!) and chase after someone else. *shakes head* It is so hard to find a sub... or any man... with real loyalty & integrity, and a commmitment to more than his cock!

There are good guys out there though, and, yes, some of them drive me crazy too! But I am also glad to have them in my life. :-) My ex-pantyboy-now-friend helped me today with moving a few things to my new place, and packing up most of the stuff in my kitchen. He took me out to dinner in the middle of everything, and afterward we went back to his place to relax. We cuddled and watched TV while he did laundry, and we baked a chocolate cake together. When we got hungry, he served me some of his yummy homemade chicken soup, and then fed me grapes. We exchanged backrubs. And, of course, I had to inspect today's panties. Black & pink were our colors when we were together, and he still wears panties in those colors, especially ones made of lace (rather than the fabrics he favors), when he is planning to see me. These were black lace thongs, outlined in bright pink, with a cute pink bow at the front waist.

Most of the pics I took aren't okay to post. However, I was really enjoying watching him swapping laundry and had to share this one. VERY yummy! It's definitely worthy of the "Porn for Women" calendar. And doesn't he have great buns? ;-)

January FemDom CHAT & a Very Good Boy!

A new potential and I are getting to know each other, including talking about expectations, boundaries, the 9 Levels of Submission, etc. This month's FemDom CHAT topic of "How Much Should a Sub Give Up to Accommodate You?" seemed very timely, and I arranged for him to join me on IM while we were listening to the discussion. I expected just to use the CHAT as a catalyst for private discussion, however he happily surprised me by putting up his hand and asking questions! A lot of guys are far too nervous to do that at first, and the fact that he did it reflects well on him and his possibilities for becoming my sub. He went "above and beyond" yet again!

He's played with individual Mistresses but has not yet been active in the community (aka the scene). He was very happy to find a safe place where he could listen to others in the scene ask questions, talk about their experiences, and get input and advice. He's looking forward to future CHATs, as well as any other similiar opportunities, and was especially interested in the "Submissive Men in the Scene: Etiquette for Newcomers" online workshop that Power Play Academy is offering on Thursday night. I know that he wants to impress me and to make sure that he is a good reflection on me if/when I start taking him to events. As a reward for "stepping up" and contributing so much to the CHAT, I have arranged with Ava (the Goddess of Registration at the Power Play Academy) to gift him with the class! I know that he is surprised at my being so generous, but in all honesty, anything that helps him learn and grow is also to my benefit as well.

I'm looking forward to his report regarding what he learned from the class, and any general tips that I might want to pass on to the clueless boys who are always applying to me. I do have to say that I really appreciate the boys who are conscientious enough to take classes, read and otherwise "do their homework", in addition to taking the time to learn what their individual Domme prefers. Unfortunately, often it is the aspiring submissives that most need classes who never think or care to take them. The ones who do are already one step ahead simply by virtue of their desire and openness to learn and to grow.

BTW - next month's FemDom CHAT, on the topic of "Covert Domination: Play, Rituals, Behavior, and Training You Can Do in Public", promises to be a lot of fun! I'm looking forward to hearing more of Auburn's little hidden rituals, and to perhaps contributing some of my own! ;-) It's free, and open to FemDoms and to the submissives of any gender who serve them (or wish to do so). Just register here: https://www2.gotomeeting.com/register/467457803%20

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Yummy FemDom Party Tonight ~

The local Female Dominant group had a yummy party tonight, including five demo stations where you can also try out what was being shown: Trampling, Cupping, CBT, Rough Body Play and Violet Wand Play. All were presented ny Dommes who are known in the local community for their wonderful skills. I went with an ex-boy of mine who is now a very good friend, and had a wonderful time enjoying his service throughout the evening. There was lots of whipping going on, but being the Queen that I am, I enjoyed a foot massage, back rub, toe sucking and other body worship, as well as general service. He knows what I like and how I like it, and I very much enjoyed having him serve me.

I also got to show him off in pink panties, three-ring-circus cock ring and pink stockings. He started out in very shiny pleather pants, but switched to a school girl skirt, which I later took off so that I could enjoy him in just the pink pretties. He had on sparkly nude nail polish, but pink glitter toe nail polish (which I had given him while we were together). I just had my finger and toe nails done in my favorite rose color, and I should have asked him to switch to the same shade. I wore an elegant nightgown and robe set that I usually reserve for the winter time. Topped off with black velvet cups, the body of the floor-length spaghetti-strap gown is a heavy silver satin with a sheer black burnout design that is reminiscent of bare trees in the winter time, or Asian cherry blossoms. The matching floor-length robe is a weighty black velvet, with wide bands of matching satin trim along the front edge and at the cuffs. The sheerness of the black design moving across my body creates just a touch of intrigue without showing too much. Underneath, I wore a new pair of hi-cut panties from my recent panty shopping trip with this very same boy. They are made of a light-weight black polyester fabric with a thin vertical metallic silver pinstripe runing throughout, and trimmed with a small black satin bow at the front waist and beautiful black lace around each leg.

Valentine's Panty Assignment - Pt. 1

I just emailed out the first (shopping) part of the Valentine's Day panty assignment. Since I'm going to be moving later in the month, I wanted to get it out so that my boys can start working on it.


I do open it up to boys who aren't in my regular service or training. If you are interested, make sure that I have your email address as soon as possible.


~ M. Magick

Are you ready for my annual Valentine's Day Panty shopping assignment?

I am working on my Valentine's Day wishlist in preparation for my annual Valentine's Day assignment, in which boys around the world buy and wear panties for me. Last year, I opened it up to boys who were not regular trainees of mine, and I had a lot of fun. Contact me if you are interested in joining in.

M. Magick

[Picture: Heart Lace Crotchless Panties from Frederick's of Hollywood]

Yummy CD Book Shopping (Thanks jezi!)

My darling jezi just sent me a belated gift certificate so that I could get the crossdressing books on my wishlist, and I've been having fun on Amazon:

I replaced my copy of Miss Vera's Finishing School for Boys Who Want to Be Girls by Veronica Vera. When I came back from California, I left my books there because I wasn't sure if I was staying in NC. They came back in a couple of batches, and I think it got misplaced somewhere along the way.

And got her second book, Miss Vera's Cross-Dress for Success: A Resource Guide for Boys Who Want to Be Girls because I want to check out all the resource listings.

I also purchased The Lazy Crossdresser by Charles Anders because I expect it to have some really good tips. I generally prefer CDs who enjoy the colors, textures, etc. of wearing women's clothing especially panties, hose, etc., but who aren't as interested in being passable. I'm not much into full-transformation for my boys, but I do support the "girls" who are, and I have gotten a bit rusty in the area of all the tricks and tips that help. I also want to learn more about the different types of crossdressers and how they differ psychologically.

Speaking of which, I was also looking at Alice in Genderland: A Crossdresser Comes of Age by Richard J. Novic. I didn't buy it tonight, but I am wondering if anyone has read it or any of the autobiographical books from the wives of crossdressers.

The prices of the books had gone down a bit, so, for fun, I also added the Porn for Women, photographed by Susan Andersonmen 2010 Wall Calendar. If you haven't seen the "Porn for Women" products, they humorously feature sexy guys vacuuming, being a good listener, bringing the reader flowers, serving strawberries or chamomile tea, etc. Some are kind of silly. Some are very yummy!

The 2011 calendar is also already available for pre-order (hint, hint), and, as you can see, the cover is hot!!! All he needs are some pretty panties or a nice silk thong instead of those pants! you might gift one to your Mistress in order to remind her of your good service - or consider it a list of some of the many ways that you should be learning to better serve her!

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These chats actually evolved out of Auburn's "The Seductive World of Female Domination" class which a sub gifted me with a year ago. We had weekly chat sessions as a part of our class, and wanted them to continue. The more recent sessions have been larger, with the attendee list hidden. You have to request to talk... unless you know Auburn and she knows that she can call on you! ;-) I miss the more freeform chat, but I have a tendency to message the moderators with comments and resource information while people are talking and then let them pass them on as appropriate.

Speaking of Auburn's class - it's fabulous! If you are familiar with the five Domme archetypes, I'm a naturally a Queen, going toward a Goddess when I do more formal scenes and training, and sometimes going toward The Nanny in times of stress. If you don't know what I'm talking about, take the class! :-)

The Seductive World of Female Domination
4-week online course with Auburn and Devon Landry.
The next class starts Jan 22.

There's also a new one-day class on etiquette for submissive men. Contrary to the title, I would bet that most experienced subs would benefit from it as well.

Submissive Men in the Scene: Etiquette for Newcomers
Online workshop with Sarah Sloane
January 21, 9:30 pm ET

A Queen in Search of Her Consort (D/s & Prince Albert)

Prince Albert: Then you had better master the rules of the game until you play it better than they can.

Princess Victoria: You don't recommend I find a husband to play it for me?

Prince Albert: I should find one to play it with you, not for you.
 - http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0962736/quotes

Tonight, another Domme friend and I saw the movie Young Victoria. First, I want to say that Victoria was a very lucky woman. Think about it: an intelligent man who encourages her to follow what she knows is right, who supports her in expressing her power (rather than trying to use it by manipulating her or attempting to take it from her) and who has dedicated his life to being there to help her with it. I am sure that many lesser "men" would have felt emasculated by always being the Prince/husband/consort and never the King. It takes a real man, strong in his masculinity and his purpose/service, to acknowledge, encourage and assist a strong woman in such a manner.

Now consider that they were together 20 years and had nine children. Talk about going at it like bunnies! As strong-minded she has been portrayed and as much she is said to have loved him, I have a feeling he was as dedicated to her pleasure in bed as he was out of it!

So, my question is, where does one find such a wonderful man these days? Someone who is a true friend, lover, consort and assistant. That is the kind of a submissive that a true Queen seeks. Yes, intelligent, skilled, cultured and knowledgable. But dedicated to the pleasure, protection, projects, etc. of his Queen. Always at her service, and using his skills and abilities to advance her, and their common, goals.


By contrast, I am reminded of the story of the Goddess Inanna/Isthar and her King consort Dumuzi/Tammuz. Some of the earliest erotica we have are poems of the how he plowed her fertile fields spilling out his sweet milk for her: http://www.piney.com/BabCourship.html

And, yet, later when she descends into the Underworld, he can't even be bothered to stop his wining and dining and... whatever else long enough to go look for her. I'd send him to Underworld too! She has elevated him, and it has gone to his head. He has forgotten her, now focused on his own desires, and lacking in loyalty, faithfulness, etc. Many men know how to court a woman, and I am not sure how a Queen can ever truely know which ones will remain faithful to her service.

Are you an Albert? Or a Dumuzi?

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Photo: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0962736/