Thursday, January 31, 2013

Sissies, It's THAT Time of Year...

When you can buy all sorts of sexy lingerie and convince everyone that it's for your wife or girlfriend. 

Whether you're doing My Valentine's assignment or not, just...
Remember the rules: 
You MUST spend at least as much pampering Her as you spend on yourself. 
And that goes double for your Mistress!

Photos taken by me @ my local Target. ;)

Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Slick-quid, not Sticky!

I was very excited to receive samples of Sliquid lube. In reading about their products, I am very impressed by their attitude and emphasis on using ingredients that are healthy and help a woman retain her natural balance. All of their lubes are paraben and glycerin free, common ingredients in lubricants which can cause burning and irritation in those with chemical allergies or sensitivities. The one issue that I should mention is that I was surprised that all their flavored "Swirl" lubes contain aspartame, an artificial sweetener which can be deadly for those with phenylketonuria (PKU) and may cause headaches, seizures and other issues in those who are sensitive to it. For this reason, I did not test any of their flavored lubes and can not recommend them. However, the problem of artificial sweeteners in lubricants is an issue for other companies as well, and I'm still very impressed with all Sliquid's non-flavored lubes.

My favorite of the samples was Sliquid Satin, and I received a small bottle to continue my "testing". It's thicker than their H20 lube, so it stays on better when I apply it on toys. Not only am I using it for intimate fun, I also found that it's the perfect lube to use with my kegel balls (which are the original Fun Factory Smartballs shown at left - click here for the UK link). I found them uncomfortable until I learned that they need to be worn with copious amounts of lube. Now I love them and ... well... try wearing them in a rocking chair or glider. Oh my!

Sliquid Satin reminds me of the original Astroglide in it's clarity and consistency, and the way that it is made to resemble a woman's natural lubrication. But it's 1000 times better: not only is it made from natural ingredients, it also doesn't dry sticky! I even tried applying some to my arm just to test it. After it dried, it first felt like there was still a bit of a smooth coating, but then even that dried away and it just felt slightly softer. Very nice!

Sliquid Satin's formulated so that it can also be used daily as a Personal/Vaginal Moisturizer and Lubricant for those of us who have dryness due to age, health issues or medications. Only a few drops are usually needed, and it's clear, smooth and easy to apply.

Yes, it's a condom-friendly, woman-friendly, natural (and even vegan-friendly!) lubricant and moisturizer that doesn't dry sticky. What more could any woman want!

And now you can enjoy 10% off on orders from the Sliquid Shop with the discount code:

NEW Code: 

In addition, for a limited time, you can get a FREE 8.5oz bottle of Sliquid Silk Hybrid Lubricant (2011 packaging - a $22.99 value) with any purchase $24.99 or higher!

FYI - Sliquid also has a boys' lubricant line called Ride Rub. It includes a quality Silicone Lube and a truely yummy Silicone/Water-based "Silk" Hybrid, as well as their "Stroke Oil".

Stroke Oil contains a blend of sweet almond oil, coconut oil, grape seed oil, sunflower seed oil, macadamia nut oil, jojoba seed oil, mango and shea butters, with vitamin e and just a touch of silicone (dimethicone). The pantyboy tells me that coconut oil is his favorite for anal play. Since I got so many goodies, I decided to share the Stroke Oil sample with him for "testing". It isn't condom friendly, but makes a decadent, unscented, super slick massage oil, and it is great if you want a natural oil-based lube for male masturbation or anal play.

I personally want to try more Sliquid products, and their warming lube,  Sliquid Organics Natural Sensation, is next on my shopping list! I wonder if one of you boys would like to get a large bottle of it for me while I can still get a free bottle of their creamy Sliquid Silk Silicone/Water-based Hybrid Lubricant with the purchase. 

Remember to use the NEW discount code:
to get 10% off on orders from the Sliquid Shop

FTC Disclosure: I am a Sliquid affiliate, and I received an assortment of Sliquid sample packets and a small bottle of Sliquid Satin free for review. I received no other compensation, and the above is my honest review of the products which I received.   

Sunday, January 27, 2013

My Revised Valentine Assignment Will Be Free For Download on Tuesday!

My Valentine's Assignment has been updated for 2013, and will be FREE for download on Monday Tuesday* only:

*I originally scheduled it for Monday, but the date has been updated to Tuesday. I guess that I didn't allow them enough lead time.

The cover pic is of the panties purchased by one of the boys who did the assignment several years ago. He purchased two pairs and let me pick. Of course, I had to extend the assignment so that he could wear them both!

If you're interested in applying to me, my monthly assignments are the way to do so, but whether you're doing the assignment for me, for your own Mistress or own your own, I'd love to know that you're doing it. Email me and let me know. The more, the merrier!


Want to do my assignment, but don't have a Kindle? You don't need one. Amazon has FREE Kindle-Reader Apps and Software available for most computers and smartphones.

If you downloaded it last year, you'll need to delete that version from your Kindle Library (even if are just using the reader software) and allow it several minutes for everything to update before you'll be able to download the new revised version. The best way to do this is to go to the "Your Account" page on Amazon. In the "Digital Content" section, select "Manage Your Kindle". You should see a list of all the items you've downloaded, and will be able to delete it using the dropdown box beside it.

The free download starts after midnight Pacific Time (usually around 12:30 am because of processing time) on, and runs for approximately 24 hours. Exactly when it starts and ends on your local Amazon website depends on the processing and update time required by the Amazon systems.

NOTE: Free Download Day is also Beta Test Day. The book will display differently on different devices and readers should let me know (ForMistressMagick *at* Yahoo *dot* com) if you find any issues.

Saturday, January 26, 2013

"Dick Heads" in Chastity

I love chastity training and play, but I get tired of boys and gurls who use pics of themselves in their chastity devices as their user icon. If I can see your dick and/or balls, these are still cock shots, and I honestly don't want to see it unless/until I am considering whether I want to make it Mine. And showing it to me first thing will ensure that it will never be! This kind of pic is all about your ego and your needs, and doesn't show any desire to get to know me or what I like. We tell you guys again and again that you should never send pics like this unsolicited, and that includes not making them your user icon.

You should also not push them on a Domme when you are asking Her to take you back, which is what a sub recently did to me, supposedly to show me his new device. In response, I tweeted:

“boys – pics of your device while you’re wearing it are still cock shots. Have some class: use/send a pic of just your device.”

The following twitter exchange inspired this great blog post by Tom Allen, which you should all read:

What the sub should have done was send me a link to the device on the manufacturer's website, but only after I actually requested it. If it's a custom device, then he could also send me a pic of the device when he wasn't wearing it. Next time you have your device off for cleaning, arrange it nicely on something and take a photo. Simple. This also makes a great user pic for chastity sites such as this one (also including a pair of his panties) which I approved for use by Simple Twist:

You can also see it on his profile here:

I also think poor locked has an ingenious user icon (showing a champagne cork held in place by it's wire cage), but duplicating him is not the idea.

I do appreciate boys who at least try to be more tasteful. @carumbad uses a photo of himself in a chrome-finish CB device which is taken close up/cropped to show his numbered lock. The device is opaque, which helps a lot, and I imagine this was a pic for his keyholder showing the number on his lock. It is much better than others, although it still shows more of the balls than I like to see in a user icon. An idea to correct this might be to take a pic while wearing panties or sexy briefs on and holding them down in front just far enough to show the lock. Any other ideas?

Friday, January 25, 2013

I've been quiet...

...because I've been sick. But I'm finally starting to feel more like my sexy Domme self again, and just in time for the Valentine's Day assignment. I'm going to make a few small updates and upload a new version, but the changes are basically to the list of suggested stores/websites. Otherwise, the assignment is the same.

If you're interested in applying to me for online training and/or service, and enjoy, or are curious about, crossdressing, completing this assignment is the way to do it. So get ready to get your panties on! ;-)

If You Would Like To Apply to Me...