Chat with Me on Ingenio

Do you want to talk to someone about D/s, female-led relationships, male submission, being a sissy, crossdressing, chastity or another kink?

Are you trying to find a way to tell your girlfriend or wife about your interests?

Maybe She has questions?

Or maybe you just need to talk to a strong, caring woman who understands and has experience with a boy or gurl like you?


Don't want to have to call a phone sex site to do it? That's okay, I'm not sure if I want to be listed on one!

I set up the Niteflirt account years ago, but I primarily use it for calls with boys who had already been emailing/tweeting with me, and to send written assignments, like those that I have for puppies. I've rarely just logged in as available because I'm not interested in being used by 1 minute wankers.

I want boys and gurls who really want to talk to me so that I can get to know them and vice versa. After all, the more I understand you, the more I am able to get inside your head and find the places that we both enjoy!

Recently, I have had some great calls from a couple different crossdressers and sissies on Niteflirt, who I'm growing closer to with every call. (And, yes, that is "the pantyboy" in the picture - dressed in lingerie that I bought him!) So I've been making myself a bit more available there. However, if you are interested in talking to me, especially when I'm offline, it's best to email me first to see if I'm around for a call (ForMistressMagick *at* yahoo *dot* com), because I might be interested in talking to you, but not in the mood to be available for just anyone who calls.

Niteflirt used to have a system by which a caller could ask to schedule an appointment, which gave me a lot more control over who and when I spoke to callers. I also know that many of you would like to call me just to talk - for advice and support. And some of you would like to have someone that your wife or girlfriend could talk to.

So I've set up a listing on another site, Ingenio, that allows scheduled appointments and even Instant Messages. This is an advice site where you can talk to doctors, lawyers, mechanics, plumbers, etc. It is not an Adult site. In fact, if some guy calls me there and is obviously a wanker, I have to tell him that it isn't that kind of site, or I could be kicked off the site myself. It has a lot more features, and I'm more likely to be logging in there. I can even set it to let me know if someone wants to talk with me and find out how long you can wait so that I can log in while I'm working on other things and take the call after I am finished. It's so much more civilized! And the way that a real Domme should be treated.

Use the buttons below to IM or me via Ingenio. If you are new to the site, you will get free minutes and I'll get a bonus for referring you. I'll also give you more free minutes as a thank you for helping me test it out.

Since I'm just getting started there and don't have any feedback yet, I've set the per minute rate really low so it's the perfect time to call - especially if you've always wanted to hear my voice. :-)


            

Remember: this is an advice site, NOT a PSO Site, so behave yourself!

If we are talking and you moaning and breathing heavy, want me to describe my feet, share a fantasy or tell you what to wear, you need to ask permission to call me on Niteflirt instead. Understood?

Boots! (and Quick Update)

I had an unexpected trip out of town this past week and am just catching up. Here's a special treat for behaving in my abscene:

From "The History of Boots" in Leather Obsession No. 7,

one of the vintage fetish magazines that I am considering selling:

Disciplining Naughty Boys ~

I must admit: I love making boys endure the things that distract them and lead them into temptation while doing their written punishments.

I just wrote an assignment of a boy who likes to look at... leer at...  women in sexy boots. So, not only does he have to surround himself with his favorite pictures of women in boots while he writes his lines, he also has to describe what he finds sexy about them is a part of him lines. *evil laugh*

And, of course, he is NOT allowed to touch himself while enduring all this teasing & punishment!
Now, that's hawt! ;-)

Finally A Classy Clips Site!

I'm the sort of Goddess who believes that it can be sexy to leave *something* to the imagination.. to tease and tempt... to play with the mind as well as the body. And, as a FemDom, it is more and more important for me that I am affiliated with sites that show respect for the true power of women. So many clips sites look cheap and trashy, and are basically focused on amateur porn... with everything "all in your face". Even when you are finally allowed a release, I want you on your knees, dreaming of being of being at my feet or serving me in other ways, gasping "Thank you, Mistress", not flipping meaninglessly through picture after picture, each of which further devalues that power.

Therefore, I'm happy to say that I have finally found a fetish-focused clips website which is classy, rather than trashy, and which also allows we to offer .mp3s so that I can tease and tantalize you with my voice, as well as my mind.

From first glance, I was impressed by Clippette. When Lisa, one of the co-founders, emailed me information, it only confirmed my first impression that this is a site that is actually intended to be respectful, intelligent and classy: "Clippette doesn't look like traditional adult websites, because we wanted to create an elegant, sexy, easy-to-use environment that conveys respect for the people selling content with us, as well as our customers. We don't think there's anything dirty or nasty about sex and wanted the site to clearly communicate that."

I have several ideas for audio files focusing on sissy fantasies, and of erotic and/or feminization hypnosis that I'd like to offer, in addition to possibility making more recordings of me. ;-)

For now, I'll be offering foot, shoe and stocking pics, as well as the notorious audio file of me being pleasured, which I also use for edging and cock control training.

Check out my new store at:
                http://www.clippette.com/Store/MistressMagick

Because Even The Pope Loves Feet!

Watching the Showtime series, The Borgias, I just had to share this clip of how a woman's leg compares to Italian politics:

"But Naples is your elegant calf. Your exquisite ankle. Your heel. Your sole. ...And your most delicious toe."

- Jeremy Irons as Pope Alexander VI (Rodrigo Borgia) with Lotte Verbeek as Giulia Farnese

... And don't we all love France! ;-)

Yummy Tease Video, Especially for Leg Lovers

She definitely enjoying teasing him so that she can take it all out of her date. Very tastefully done. I approve! ;-)

Steamy Vintage Silk Stockings Ad Starring Kim Basinger (circa 1992)

After seeing this commercial at Hot Sexy Fashion Pictures, I had to share it with all my foot, shoe and stocking fetishists.

And, honestly, the sheer tease of it will be good for all my boys & gurls!

Panty Hose Border Crossing - Video powered by Metacafe.com

via http://bit.ly/Silk-Stockings & http://aslipofagirl.blogspot.com/

NC Fetish Art Festival 2010 Part One: The Art

A week ago Friday, wolfmoon escorted me to the 2010 NC Fetish Art Festival: "A Bad Romance".

The evening was a mixture of various types of fetish-themed art combined with a couple sets of stage performances.

The majority of art hanging in the gallery was actually photography, with a only few paintings, line drawings and mixed media pieces. My favorite, pictured at right, did not have a title listed. I love the sexy legs and shoes, kicking off the panties, and suspect that the model is a CD. The frame and flecks of paint, which aren't very visible in the photo, made this piece at least as much as the photo itself.  If you know what it's called and the name of the artist, please let me know. I know that she had dreadlocks, but I failed to get her information.

I personally love pen and ink, and the piece at the left, "(S)ex Libris" by K.S. Burton, made me think of yummy erotica and of strong, sexy intelligent women, like Literatrix.

I also didn't get the info for the one at right, but it made me think of me sitting with my legs crossed in delicate stockings, over the bound and fishnet covered legs of one of my girls, especially my darling jezi-girl. I like the feeling of closeness, with the touch of domination that is implied... holding her down... being above her.

Speaking of time with the girls, while I was taking pictures, I had to snap one of the poster at right, which was displayed, appropriately, in the ladies' room.

We noticed that the majority of the art was actually focused on female submission. wolfmoon pointed out the photo that later won Best in Show as one with a male submissive theme. Shown at right, "Love is a Drag" by Lisa Johnson, includes a soft CD twist on a traditional romantic theme. We were sitting right beside the photographer when she won and it was nice to be able to talk to her about the piece.

Third Place was certainly one of the more interesting pieces. Entitled "Ode to Hugh Hefner", the mixed media creation at left by Amanda Bushman had an emphasis on boobs, bras and butts, in the style of classic pinup girls.

There were also two metal pieces by M. Abrams that really caught my eye. The one pictured at the right was "Untitled", but had a long explanation about male virility and sperm, so it is no surprise that it immediately inspired thoughts of having a boy kneeling, held in place with his cock and balls through the ring. (The inside of the ring was a good 2 1/2" in diameter - actually too large for many boys, but still close enough in fantasy, especially considering that the wearer would also have to adjust his stance for the height of the stand.) The other was a paddle with the word "slut" spelling out in Morse code along it's length.

The live art included a series of suspension demos, two different types of body painting, and a female switch that I know creating a picture on another woman's back using ribbons and needles. I especially like the Black Light Body Painting by Living Brush shown at left.

I don't know where to start with all the performances, and I still need to see which of those photos are clear enough to use so this is
To Be Continued...

All photos taken by M. Magick.

Foot Worship

Receiving foot worship is one of my all-time favorite kink activities. I love having my feet rubbed, and having my toes sucked for hours by a boy who really gets into it gets me going like nothing else.

However, I do think that real foot worship can only be done in person. It's like giving a massage: a cyber massage is nice, but it's still not a real massage.

And, while foot baths* and vibrating slippers can be wonderful, I've never found one that comes close to the pleasure of having a boy at my feet massaging and sucking. And, obviously, an online pedicure isn't something that I can show off by wearing sexy sandals.

That being said, I do understand that there are fetishist who enjoy looking at my feet, and reading about them for their own pleasure. (Please do not delude yourself into thinking that imaging my feet as you pleasure yourself is at all submissive, or is any sort of service to me, because it is not!) These are the fetishists for which I post pics for sale because this is a service that I am providing to them, and not the other way around.

And, yes, when they are respectful and somewhat submissive, I sometimes do really enjoy talking to a foot boy, and describing my feet for him via a service such as Niteflirt. However, I do want to hear your voice - your breath - your moans - so that I can really hear my power over you via the effect that my words and pics are having on you. Hearing that, as you call me Mistress, can, and does, make me hot. ;-)

*Mmm.. I could use a new heated, massaging foot bath. Mine broke some time ago, and I haven't replaced it. That is one way that a foot boy can pamper me from afar, and one like this would make a nice gift, perhaps even a holiday present:
http://www.amazon.com/Conair-FB51-Massaging-Footbath-Purple/dp/B000LQHTUM

Another obvious way is to treat me to a pedicure. I always feel pampered as I watch the girl rubbing my feet and doing my toe nails, knowing that a boy is having them done for my pleasure. ;-) I am also happy to take pics and love showing off my pretty toesies in return.

Picture: "Yin Yang Footrubs" taken my Mistress Magick at Saturday night's foot party.
Yes, that is my foot! ;-)

i'd love to feel your sexy toes digging into my crotch mistress..while i sniff the sole of your other foot...do you indulge your foot boy like that? :-)

Sniffing? I'd put your hands and mouth to work rubbing, kissing and sucking!

It's not unusual for me to start by putting my other foot in your crotch, pressing against your hardness and using it for leverage as I slide back, f'ing your mouth with other foot. But eventually both feet will go to your mouth... or be pressing against your shoulder or chest as I use you.

Ask me something worthy of a response. *Adults Only*

wow your "footrub" story with your sisters made me hard! :-)..do you have female footslaves? do you fuck them with your toes? :-)

Wow.. someone is a horny boy!

No, I've had enough experience with women to know that I'm actually quite straight. I like kissing and cuddling with women, but when it comes to sexual things, I need someone with a real cock attached, whether I desire to use it or not. And considering how very *hot* foot worship makes me, I'm only interested in foot *boys*.

Ask me something worthy of a response. *Adults Only*

Foot Fetishist Training Video: Don't Be That Creepy Guy!

What would you do if you caught me sniffing your pumps? :-)

Press your nose all the way into each shoe, making you really smell them deeply... then have you carry them across the room, in your mouth as you crawl. If you were lucky... I might let you masturbate on them... or even in them... and then lick them clean. Of course, you would still need to buy me a new pair.

Ask me something worthy of a response. *Adults Only*

Mistress, do you have any barefeet photos?

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Panties & Garters... and my Favorite Garter Stockings

Apparently there is a great debate over which should go on top, the panties or the garter belt. To me, it's quite obvious:

Yes, it often looks sexier to have the garters on top of the panties, and that is absolutely fine if one is posing for a photo shoot or just putting them on in the bedroom, where one does not expect to be wearing them for any length of time. 

However, if you are actually wearing them, then the panties should obviously go on top. The first trip to the Ladies' Room will quickly prove this fact.

When with a Lady, if you want to remove the stockings first, as any gentleman should, you simply unhook the stockings and roll them down, perhaps with soft kisses upon the legs, feet and toes as you go.

I personally believe that the test of a man's experience and dexterity isn't whether he can unhook a bra, but rather whether he can undo a garter with only the flip of a couple fingers. If you don't believe me, watch the movie Bull Durham, and imagine me as Annie Savoy. I often do! ;-)

  

That being said, I personally prefer lace-trimmed garter stockings (seen at the right, also sometimes called "suspender hose") for everyday wear, and on my boys as well. They don't have the hardware of a garter belt, and are less binding/more accessible than pantyhose.

However, with these, whatever is on top is what will be removed first! Well, unless you want to cut off the stockings... and believe me, it has been done! Everything else holds true, so since they are being worn all day, or at least all evening, the panties go on top. Then all you have to do is slip down your undies when you go to the Ladies' (or, for you boys, the Gents'), and your panties also help control the "suspenders"- they do move around and stretch as you walk and sit. I, of course, require easy access to my property, and these leave a nice pretty lace "frame" around your (My!) package or buns, even when I have exposed them for my pleasure and potential use.

Photos:
- Screen shot taken from my DVD of Bull Durham
- Calvin Klein Garter Stockings @ Bare Necessities

Foot Worship Puppy Play

I had a yummy call tonight with a foot fetishist who is into puppy play. He loves the sound of flip flops and is the one who bought me my new Sole Sport Flips. They arrived yesterday, and we had planned for me to call him when they came in so that he could listen to me walking in them. I wasn't sure how much he was going to be able to hear me, even with the speaker phone on the floor, but I had a couple surprises planned for him as well.

I prepped by changing into my rosebud-trimmed chemise (a birthday tribute from one of my boys) and setting the flips and other toys in the kitchen, where they should make the most noise. I love wearing things that were tributed to me... it makes me feel sexy, pampered, loved and desired. I was also wearing panties that match the panties that I gifted to my jezi-girl, and the thought that everything I was wearing was tied to a boy was incredibly hot.

 

After calling him up, I slipped back into my flips, which I had also been wearing when I was cooking earlier. With the phone on the floor, I walked back and forth past it and then just started dancing in front of it. I have to admit that I was thinking about trampling a boy, and especially certain parts of him, while I was dancing. ;-) I know he gets off on the sound of flips, but the fact that I was wearing them just for him was driving him crazy, and I was having so much fun doing it that I was laughing.

Then I started playing with the chain leashes... first a regular weight one with a leather wrist loop, and then a heavier one with a nylon loop, and finally the collar and dog tags... talking about putting them on him and having him follow me around as I walked... pulling on his leash as needed. I kept jiggling them and jangling them, and he was in heaven... and I was getting wet just hearing how much it was all affecting him. As we got more and more into the sounds of the heavy leash and tags, I kicked off the flips and started hitting the floor with one of them. It sounded just like a paddle, spanking him... adding even more to both our excitement. I eventually went to just playing with the sounds of the heavier leash and dog tags, laughing at how much he was getting into it... and begging to be allowed to touch what he knows he can not touch without permission. 

Eventually, I took the phone, leash and tags into the bedroom, and curled up on my bed, still playing with them. I said that he was now lick my feet and clean then like a good puppy... and... well...  I think I'll leave it to your imagination from there. ;-)

Dreaming of a certain puppy curled up at my feet...

M.

Phone Training: The Tale of Two Foot Fetishists

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Foot Pics: Rose Toe Nails, Purple jezi-love Nightgown & Black Slingback Wedges

I was taking a few pics & thought you might enjoy them as well. ;-)

Aside from the bedroom, what is your favourite room to use a submissive in? Does the setting affect his tasks, or vice versa?

I would say vice versa: I choose the setting based on the task at hand, what furniture is required, etc.

My favorite room is actually the livingroom (although I've used the futon in my home office in many of the same ways). I keep kneeling cushions in the livingroom, and I love to sit or lounge on the couch or futon while you:

- Present yourself, kneeling before me wearing only your thong, with your collar in hand, ready for me to put it on you.

- Strip and model various thongs and cockrings, or panties, stockings, and other lingerie.

- Bring me water from the kitchen, and then sit on the other end of the futon, rubbing lotion on my feet as I work on my laptop.

- Massage my back as you kneel beside me. I stretch out as you work, relaxing into the couch, so that you can massage me more completely back and front.

- Sit on the floor in front of me, sucking my toes for hours. The couch is a nice height and provides back support as a use a free foot for leverage on your shoulder or against your hardness.

And I might also sit there working as you wait on me, dressed as a sissy maid or only wearing your thong. Enjoying you serving me, I occassionally look up or comment as you are cooking in the adjacent kitchen or cleaning and taking care of things around the house.

The livingroom also has the most space to move around for role play, etc. And to be quite honest, my favorite position works best on the couch. ;-)

Ask me something worthy of a response. *Adults Only*

Yummy Femme Domme Weekend

Saturday night was the local Female Dominants' Group's Valentine Ball.

I wore my Pomba gown, which is made of black silk and mesh decorated with red laces and sequins. My favorite local pantyboy was again my escort. He is so wonderful and has a way of making me laugh. He made us dinner before the party, as well as our food for the potluck, chauffeured, etc. I had a lot of fun glittering him up, and dressed as a naughty faerie, he won the costume contest.

I tried seated trampling in a pre-arranged scene with a very experienced foot boy and had a blast. I could push and rub and press as I wanted, standing up almost off the chair when I wanted to really add my weight. Not having to worry about keeping my balance let both of us relax into the sensations, and it was really hot! I knw that he loves being under a woman, and I got into thinking about all the ways that I could enjoy being above him. ;-)

Finally, I ran into a boy that I had introduced to the group a while back. His personal situation has changed, and I had a wonderful time sitting and talking with him as he lightly caressed, massaged and kissed me as I wanted. He has wonderfully sensual hands and lips, and I'm looking forward to talking with him again soon.

Sunday afternoon, I released my remainng desires from Saturday night on my UK sissy, jezi...totally and completely enjoying her for my pleasure. ;-) We haven't had much time together in real time recently, and I made time on both Saturday and Sunday afternoon to renew that connection. Sunday was the amazing day, and the perfect cherry on top of the night before.

Sunday night was this month's FemDom CHAT. The topic: "Covert Domination: Play, Rituals, Behavior, and Training You Can Do in Public." It make it a lot more enjoyable to me to have a male subs input on our discussions. A married sub that I have been mentoring was also listening in, and I had a good time chatting back and forth with him privately about the discussion, as well as speaking with Auburn and devious on the actual CHAT itself.