Monday, May 31, 2010
I do admit that, as she is my gurl, I altered the assignment slightly for her, and also allowed her to do it late because of family obligations. Then, using the delay in perfoming the assignment and the changes that I made for her as the reasons, I delighted in having her repeat it for we several times, reinforcing my ownership of her, such that May Day almost became "Scrunchie Week". As such, it's no wonder that she's having a new appreciation for pretty scrunchies as she shops and still buying new ones to add to her collection. I think I may have to declare certain days as "Scrunchie Days"... days which I select, on which she will wear a scrunchie in the selected color around her package under her pretty panties as a further reminder of my ownership of her and of "my" cock.
Sunday, May 30, 2010
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
Thursday, May 20, 2010
I have a tremendous amount of fun playing with nipple piercings... they seem to invite my fingers and lips to them... not to mention putting bells on them, attaching nipple clamps, connecting them to a cock ring, etc.
PA's can be used (carefully) for a leash, to help better secure a chastity device, etc. It's a great way to mark a cock as mine, and to decorate it for my pleasure! I've found that a PA which fits such that the ring is flush when hard, with the bead making a nice nub, feels a-maz-ing on the g spot during rear entry, and I'd love to have a version that would work while facing. I'm curious about an apadravya for that. I like the "look" of it, but I haven't had the opportunity to experience one yet.
Of course, I also love marking boys with collars (including necklaces), cock rings, chastity and/or panties. Exactly what often depends on the boy.
I recently heard from two of my old foot worship regulars that I had not spoken with in months. I enjoyed both calls, but my feelings after the two calls were very different:
He also sent me a wonderful thank you email after the call, and we've been emailing back and forth a bit since then. I don't mind giving him my time because I know that he is sincere and doing his best in the light of his circumstances. And while he has less to work with, he follows through promptly on his promises.
I do have to say that doing the foot worship/training calls with the two of them has me hot, wet and well...back in the mood to do more phone work. If you are interested in scheduling a call, email me via Niteflirt: http://www.niteflirt.com/MistressMagick or contact my assistant at ForMistressMagick *at* yahoo *dot* com.
Sunday, May 16, 2010
- boys not in my service who want to sign up to perform my assignments
- sending me email gifts & gift certificates
- scheduling paid time to chat with me.
It's: ForMistressMagick *at* yahoo *dot* com
It's NOT linked to the one that I use for chatting, and is set up so that my assistant can check it for me and forward as appropriate. I've changed the email listed on my wishlists and such to reflect the new address. My current boys should continue to use the email address that they have for me, as it gives more direct access.
Friday, May 14, 2010
If you are sincerely interested, send me your mail address, and I will email you the assignment.
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
For instance, I was standing in line at post office waiting to pick up some packages yesterday when I saw the poster on the wall for these new Animal Rescue: Adopt a Shelter Pet stamps. I would be willing to bet that no one else in that post office reacted to said poster by thinking: "I've got to get those for my puppies!", and if they did, they certainly weren't think about sending cards and notes to the human variety. Yes, I bought a pane of them. :-) I love cats, and so do many of my friends, so none of them will go to waste.
Then, as I was looking through my packages, I saw one from an unexpected address. A long distance pantyboy friend who wears the same style of everyday panties that I prefer sent me several pairs as a belated birthday surprise, adding yet another very wide grin to my lips.
It's lunch hours like that make me happy to be a Domme!
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Sunday, May 9, 2010
I've decided on the following holiday training assignments for this summer:
- Midsummer (Due by June 21) - A Fantasy Journaling Assignment inspired by A Midsummer Night's Dream.
- 4th of July/Bastile Day (For Either July 4 or July 14) - Dressing you in Red, White and Blue! ;-)
- Dog Days of Summer (Due in late August) - You guessed it! Woof! Woof!
Since I need to focus more on working on my Puppy Play book, you are likely to see lots of posts on this topic in the upcoming months, all of which should serve as nice teasers to get you ready to explore your puppy self.
- School Days (September) - Give out your crayons, kids, it's time to go back to back to school!
(As always, this assignment is for consenting adults only, of course!)
The Midsummer Assignment is ready now, as is the Puppy Play Assignment, for those who would like a head start on things.
In order to participate in any assignment, you will need to give me your email address so that I can send you the assignment. If you are interested, DM me on Twitter, Paypal me a small tribute with your address in the message, leave a comment here with a way to contact you, etc. The diligent sub may find other ways to contact me by exploring my links.
For more information on my assignments and how they work, go to:
Upcoming Holiday Assignments / Test Subjects Needed for Fetish Exploration
Friday, May 7, 2010
Aside from the bedroom, what is your favourite room to use a submissive in? Does the setting affect his tasks, or vice versa?
My favorite room is actually the livingroom (although I've used the futon in my home office in many of the same ways). I keep kneeling cushions in the livingroom, and I love to sit or lounge on the couch or futon while you:
- Present yourself, kneeling before me wearing only your thong, with your collar in hand, ready for me to put it on you.
- Strip and model various thongs and cockrings, or panties, stockings, and other lingerie.
- Bring me water from the kitchen, and then sit on the other end of the futon, rubbing lotion on my feet as I work on my laptop.
- Massage my back as you kneel beside me. I stretch out as you work, relaxing into the couch, so that you can massage me more completely back and front.
- Sit on the floor in front of me, sucking my toes for hours. The couch is a nice height and provides back support as a use a free foot for leverage on your shoulder or against your hardness.
And I might also sit there working as you wait on me, dressed as a sissy maid or only wearing your thong. Enjoying you serving me, I occassionally look up or comment as you are cooking in the adjacent kitchen or cleaning and taking care of things around the house.
The livingroom also has the most space to move around for role play, etc. And to be quite honest, my favorite position works best on the couch. ;-)
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
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Monday, May 3, 2010
How do you deal with the stereotype of "Domme" and the overly commercialised perception of what female dominance is?
I admit that while I do find it frustrating, I've decided that the best way to deal with it is to simply be myself, educating those that I interact with as I can along the way.
I owe a lot to my friend, Auburn Goddess (Auburn Landry), in helping me better understand the fives styles of Female Dominance, and the submissives who match with each style. And I often use the information from her class in helping to explain it to others.
For those who don't know, I'm a Queen, meaning that I'm an loving and affectionate Domme, and I get my power from my femininity. I go toward being a Goddess (less affectionate) in formal scenes, and toward the Nanny (caring for my sub rather than him taking care of me) in times of stress. The type of sub that I seek gets his greatest reward from pleasing and pleasuring a woman.
Of course, the "Dommes" who are just in it for the money, and the "sub" who are really just bottoms wanting to be done exactly the way that want to done are always going to be there, as far as I'm concerned, they deserve each other.
What bothers me is having to wade through all the do-me bottoms to find the true gem who is not only a real submissive, but the type of submissive who "fits" the type of Domme that I am.