Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Is PayPal Fascist?

Now that I have your attention, I would like to ask for your help:

As some of you know, PayPal "limited" my accounts. (It is locked so that I can not send or receive money, and I am NEVER supposed to have a PayPal account ever again.)

I have *always* worked to keep my blogs free of pornography, and you will NEVER see "spread legs" and other degrading shots of women here. My blogs are published on the Kindle (a privilege that I intend to keep), and my forthcoming books will be as well. I had absolutely no reason to suspect that Paypal would have an issue with my blogs, and I was given absolutely no warning .. no information on what the issue was or opportunity to fix it... before they locked the accounts.

Yes, I'm a lifestyle Domme and a writer, and I write about those things. Apparently my having donation buttons on my blogs and accepting payments for my written assignments and email training was against their TOS. The buttons were taken down as soon as we knew that there was an issue, however they refuse to even consider reinstating the accounts.

Okay.. I understand that they might have an issue with adult content (I just wish they had been clear about what was acceptable), and I am already working on setting up an account via a service that will be okay with the content here, but here's the problem:

I used my publisher's PayPal account for some of the buttons because I did not to want to use my legal name on them. Instead, she added my ForMistressMagick *at* yahoo *dot* com address to her account.

She is an established eBay seller, selling there since 1998, when she had an eBay business, and has thousands of positive feedback ratings. It is true that she is no longer selling those items, however she is still an active eBay buyer and seller.. or was.

She spent two weeks going back and forth with Paypal via email and on the phone before giving up. They kept doing things like calling her back at the conference room that she had called from the day before (for privacy) rather than using the number that she gave them to use. One of the women in customer support that she talked to (after waiting on hold for half an hour during her lunch hour), was freaked out by the idea that I would send guys out to buy panties and wear them, and tried to get her to say that I was selling sexual services and pornography, which I am not.

The same woman also told her that she would not be able to sell copies of my books via Paypal*, which is obviously untrue. If you go to eBay and search on "Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns" you will find at least half a dozen listings which can be purchased there and paid for via Paypal, and I suspect the same is true for most any other BDSM non-fiction book.

(*We are planning to sell the books via Amazon, but had hoped to be able to sell copies directly as well (including autographed ones), and are looking at different options for that now.)

This woman told her to write and submit a statement explaining what had happened and saying that she would never accept payments for me again, and she did just that. However, she just received the same "appeal denied" email as before.

She wanted to do some holiday shopping on eBay, and after weeks of frustration, she tried opening a new account with one of the few unused emails and unused credit cards she had left (none of the ones on her locked accounts can ever be used again on the PayPal site), indicating that it was a personal account and only for buying items on eBay. Paypal immediately blocked it.

She tried calling them about it. According to them, she is supposed to NEVER have an account with them again either, and that it is not an appealable offense. They refused to let her talk to a supervisor when she called. Eventually they promised her that they would call her back the next day at the phone number and time she specified, but never called.

I am really upset that she is banned, and having to deal with all of this frustration because of me. At this point, all she wants to be able to do is to buy on eBay, and possibly to sell a few used, vanilla books. We're obviously never going to try using PayPal for anything of an adult nature *ever* again.

If you want to help, boycott PayPal and/or email and complain.

And please forward this to let other PayPal users know that their account can be locked with absolutely no warning and no real recourse.

Thanks so much,

Mistress Magick

Tuesday, December 28, 2010

December/Yule & January Assignment Updates

This weekend, I uploaded a couple of the Holly-Day Panties reports to my InHerService report blog. I do expect a couple more "wearing reports" to come in from those who purchased their panties before going offline for the holidays.

I'm also still getting requests for the assignment. However, while I did see some on clearance at Cacique today, I feel like it's too really too late for Christmas panties. (Though it's still not too late for Yule presents. ;-))

On the other hand, I'm beginning to think that it might be fun to have some of you wearing "festive panties" in a different color for New Year's Eve! Hmmmmm... I wonder what color might be appropriate. It's probably too late to order gold or silver sequined or metallic undies! And I think I might make it "By Invitation Only".

Speaking of New Year's, the January assignment is going to be on the theme of Janus (looking back & looking forward). Part of it will be like New Year's Resolutions, but it is going to be more complex. It is really only for the submissives who are interested in serving me &/or training with me in the coming year, and it will probably be due around  mid-January in order to allow time for you to complete my Valentine's assignment by/on February 14.

You can start requesting the January assignment now, by emailing:
ForMistressMagick *at* yahoo *dot* com

Monday, December 27, 2010

Kink-Colored Glasses: Puppy Footies

I was downloading pics of my new everyday panties from my phone, when I realized that I had never posted these.

I spotted these Adult-Sized, Doggie-Themed, One-Piece, Footed, Fleece PJs in the Ladies Sleepwear department at Target before Christmas. While I usually have my puppies wear as little as possible, my first thought was that it would make a nice fuzzy "coat" for a puppy during the colder months. I'm not sure what my European puppy, mutt, would think of them, especially in pink. However, I know a couple furries who would have a happy fit!

Now, I do have to admit that I found them a little confuzzling: The feet have a generic, cartoonish puppy face that looks more like... maybe... hmmmm... a beagle? Whereas the design on the chest looks closer to a Scottie. Perhaps they were genetically confused? (Oh.. wait.. they must have been! How else do you get two heads on your feet?)

In case you're wondering, the red ones in the pic are the Nick & Nora® Womens Sock Monkey Footed Pajamas Set - Red. I didn't find the puppy ones on the Target site, however, you can also get a "jump" on my Easter assignment with the Nick & Nora® Womens Bunny Footed Pajamas Set - Pink.

Sissies ~

I must remember that every time I do a feminization assignment, I am likely to get at least a couple sissies or CDs who want all my attention, but who aren't interested in giving back.

Given the choice between:

- Someone who wants to tell you all their fantasies, just wants to wank to thoughts of you, and/or only wants you to take care of them. 

- Someone who does what you ask, giving enjoyable responses and helpful feedback, and shows that they value your time and attention by giving back in some way.

Which would you choose?

And given the choice between the boy that I enjoy, and one who respects my time enough to tribute via gifts or service, there are always enough applicants that I need only choose those that do both.

Thursday, December 23, 2010

Buy my Written Assignments & .mp3s

I am bookmarking this page as a location where you can later buy my written assignments and .mp3s directly from me, rather than having to go through NiteFlirt, etc.

Blessed Yule & Happy Holly-Days!

I hope everyone had a Blessed Yule /
Beautiful Winter Solstice!

Wishing you the Happiest of Holidays,
however you celebrate!

Saturday, December 18, 2010

A Few of My Favorite Things ~

Because you asked, both to know me better and to have some idea of the holiday gifts I might like, I have decided to share the below. It's a list that I usually keep for my personal submissives.
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Textures: Leather, Velvet, Silk, Lace, Satin, Single-colored Jacquard Designs

Colors: Black, Purple, Metallic Gold, Forest Green, Sage Green, Burgundy, Dark Rose

Sleek black for iPods, phones, etc. and always black for leather. Black with gold, ivory, sage green or silver grey for bedding (queen sized, of course). I only prefer silver over gold are for things like cars & computers, where it really looks better.

When in doubt, go with black, possibly accented with gold. As my sub, you’ll learn that those are my signature colors. As you might have noticed, purple has also become a real favorite. ;-)

Stones: Onyx, Hematite, Amethyst, Rose Quartz – Diamonds are my birthstone.

I usually only wear gold or brass jewelry. Gold-filled is okay. Gold-plated is just tacky!

Motifs: Roses; Stars, Moons and Suns; Goddesses; Angels; Celtic-knot, Astrological, Greek, Roman, Asian (especially Japanese) and Egyptian patterns & symbols; Lotus Blossoms

Flavors: Chocolate w/ Raspberry or w/ Hazelnut or other nuts; Ginger; Peaches; Dark Cherries; Cashews. I only like fresh strawberries, preferably chocolate-dipped.

Drinks: Sweet champagnes & meads; Chai lattes; Hot chocolate (see flavors above); Bellinis; Frozen Peachy or Mango-flavored Girlie Drinks

Restaurants: The Cheesecake Factory, The Melting Pot, Firebird’s (steak house with the BEST prime rib), Kanki, Outback; Japanese restaurants, also Thai, Chinese, Indian, American, etc.

I don’t like “hot" food – no hot peppers or wasabi -- but I love things with lots of herbs and flavor (rosemary, garlic, ginger, yellow curry, etc).

I have wishlists for my birthday, holidays, etc. on

When you select something from a list, remember to indicate that you have purchased it.

Also, Gift Certificates from the following are always welcome:

- Amazon – I buy most of my books, movies and music from Amazon or Amazon third-party sellers, and get many other goodies and essentials from there as well.

- Target – My favorite place to shop for everyday things, from nail polish to new sheets. I prefer the hardcopy Gift Cards (not the online certificates) so that I can use them in the store, however they will not ship them to PO Boxes. For a personal touch, pick up a cute one from your local store and tuck it inside a greeting card.

- Barnes & Noble – I prefer the Gift Cards (not the online-only certificates) so they can be used in the store - to buy journals & Godiva chocolates, and to sit in the cafĂ© and sip chai lattes. (I like to look at books at B&N, but I usually buy them from Amazon.)

Online Gift Certificates can be sent to:
ForMistressMagick *at*

You can send gift cards and other items to me via my publisher:

M. Magick
c/o MoonDance Publications
P O Box 14134
Durham, NC 27709-4134

DO NOT put “Mistress Magick” on the outside of the package, however interior notes can be addressed that way. Also, send me an e-mail so that I can ask her to watch for the package.

Holly-Day Panties

Taken from a 1952 Esquire calendar, thanks so much to @SlipofaGirl for letting me share this image with all of you! I saw it when she posted it in her blog at: 

While I'm not so much into "candy cane" striped panties, looking at it happily reminds me of all of you boys and girls as you are busy shopping for, and wearing, your Holly-Day panties for me. ;-)  And I do have to admit that these bloomers, which she mentions, might be awlfully sweet for certain sissies.

P.S. Don't miss the Holly-Day Panty Shopping Report I posted yesterday at  

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Yule Panties & Outfits for the UK boys & girls!

Look what my darling jezi-girl found (Good girl!):

Ann Summers has a nice assortment of Mrs/Miss Santa outfits, all of which meet with my approval. The apron, and the North Pole bra and thong could also be acceptable.

As far as the panties go, I'd prefer the "Seducing Santa" shorts WITHOUT the message on the back, but I like the "Christmas Cracker" Knickers (shown at right) - they are more girlie and come in what look like reasonably large sizes for the UK. There's also some naughty reindeer and snowman pouches that I will consider an acceptable non-femme substitute for the boys out there. Remember: if you are just buying undies, that they need to be ones that you can wear all day under your regular clothes.

jezi is also going to check out this Tartan thong (at left) at Debenhams, which looks like it might be much more her style:

One of the things that I like about this kind of assignment is how each of you shows your personality in the item(s) that you buy. Along those same lines, WP2, who is definitely all boy, found the below Cookie Monster Holiday Panties at Primark:

The less expensive stores are more likely to have the holiday novelty items, so don't be afraid to check them out! They are perfectly acceptable for this assignment. Also, because they can be hard to find, you are allowed to buy your Holly-Day panties online, but you need to order them NOW if you are going to do so. There are some links for US sources in the original post and in the assignment itself.

So far, I only have the one shopping report (from WP2). I'm looking forward to him wearing his panties while he attends some holiday parties this weekend. (One of which is at the same time as my own office party! That should be fun! ;-)) If you are interested in joining in, now is the the time to request my Yule Assignment and get your shopping on!

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

My Yule Assignment Has Been E-mailed

With Three Levels of Feminization, this year's Yule/Holly-Day assignment has a little something for everyone:

- Level One is a holiday panty buying & wearing assignment for those who don't normally crossdress, and generally would only wear panties in order to please their Mistress and/or because they enjoy the feel of them.

- Level Two is an online shopping assignment for sissies and other CDs/TVs/etc. who want to crossdress in sexy little outfits for their Mistress, but aren't able to do so because of privacy reasons.

- Level Three is a dressup assignment for sissies and other CDs/TVs/etc. who can find the time/privacy to buy and wear a special outfit just for me.

I expect most of my boys to participate at Level One, whereas my jezi will certainly do Level Two and will hopefully have the privacy for Level Three.

To participate, email: ForMistressMagick *at* Yahoo *dot* com and request my Yule Assignment.

The photo above is from Cacique:

Not only do they have the outfit above, also they have
Yummy Plus-Sized Holly-Day Panties on Sale for 50% off, including the ones below:
(Some of the best ones are already sold out, so you'd better hurry!)

Saturday, December 4, 2010

"Santa Baby" by Eartha Kitt
(with some en Femme "Friends")

An oldie, but a goodie: A version of my one my favorite holiday songs, done for the gurls!

And a bonus, in honour of today's early snow fall...

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

"Writing, Not Wanking"

I've decided that "Writing, Not Wanking" is my official slogan for my Written Punishments Chastity/Cock Control Assignments/Training! Some of you will be writing it in the near future! ;-)

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Using Written Punishments & Cock Control Training To Help Couples

I decided to cross-post the below from the report in my blog. I would love to do more training of this sort with male submissives, and I do believe that it can be used to help enhance their relationship with the Goddess in their life, or to help prepare them to be ready to serve Her when she comes along, as well as to improve their treatment of all women.
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When we started, I knew that SeekingP only intended to train with me while his Lady was out of town for a few months. While She has been gone, we have worked on his porn addiction and the fact that he needs to focus on Her service and pleasure rather than on letting his own selfish habits take his time and attention away from her. We have also worked on his disrespectful actions toward other women, such as his tendency to stare at their assets as they walk by on the street.

I am really glad to see that my combination of written punishments and cock control have made a difference for him. While I am sad to see him go, I understand that now he needs to focus on his own Goddess. And I do have to say that she is a very lucky lady to have such an intelligent and sensual boy who knows that it is his place to please Her. The fact that he noticed that his focus was straying from Her and took steps to change that speaks well of him. I would hope that I could help other committed couples in much the same way.

I don't think a few sessions will solve every problem, and do believe that long-term reinforcement may often be required. Since SeekingP was straightforward with me, I am happy to help, if at any point, he finds himself slipping or in need of additional training, and would welcome working with him again.

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Dear Mistress Magick,

I am happy that you have accepted my lines and have granted me an orgasm.

It took me a bit of time to start on this set of lines. I had used up almost all the pages of my legal sized notepad, so I had to go to the stationary shop and get myself a new pad of paper. I also had come down with a bit of a head cold, which was making me rather slow and tired. But after I assembled the necessary stationary, I started on my lines. This set of lines seemed to go quite slowly. It seemed to take a long time to even approach the half-way mark. But the lines were doing their job of reminding me of what's important and what I shouldn't do.

Going to work in the morning after having spent part of the previous night writing my line was a good experience. I could hear and feel my line in my head, reminding me that I was *not* allowed to stare at and ogle women. My focus should be on my Goddess, not on disrespecting random women in the street.

During this time, I'd been working on completing a To-Do list of things that I want to do in preparation for my Goddess's homecoming. It is now just a short time until she will be home, and I want to do what I can to welcome her, make her feel special and comfortable. And I'm also looking forward to the sex that we will have, and I've been fantasizing about all the different ways I want to pleasure and pamper her when she gets home.

I was happy when I finally finished my lines. I waited for your response and was happy to be granted an orgasm, as at that point it had been more than a week since I'd had one. It is amazing to know that I can go for a week or more without cumming and that such a schedule can begin to feel normal to my body, compared to sometimes having multiple orgasms per day when I was in charge of my cock.

I received your email on Thursday morning, so I'd have to wait until Thursday night to give myself an orgasm. I followed your instructions, thinking about my Goddess and all the ways I wanted to pleasure and pamper her. This was easy, as her impending return already had me thinking about the things I wanted to do to welcome her back, and all the different ways I want to kiss and lick her. I edged 4 or 5 times over the course of 20 minutes, and then finally pleasured myself until I went over the edge. The orgasm felt good, then I quickly licked my seed from my hand before it went cold or my arousal subsided. I don't enjoy the taste of my cum, but there it was...I thus cleaned up my mess and then went to sleep.

I am proud of myself, as it's been nearly a month since I've engaged in my porn habit. Instead, I've been able to focus on doing more productive things and on how I want to treat my Goddess and and our sexualities. But I also know that a month is not a lot of time, and that it is still quite easy to fall back into old habits, spending hours viewing porn on the internet. But so far I've been good, and I intend to really try to keep it up (no pun intended). My Goddess will now be home in a week, so I want to fill this week full of chores that I can do to make the house clean an welcoming for her return, as well as fantasies about all the different ways I want to hug, kiss and pleasure her when she gets back. Upon her return, I think it will be easy for me to focus on her and be a good submissive servant. In the longer term, it may be harder, but it's a challenge that I'm up for.

At the moment I can't think of other behaviours that I would like to address in this way. I feel that my behaviour has improved over the course of the last month, and now I'm trying to focus on my Goddess's return and on how I want to focus my sexuality on her.

In submission,

Sunday, November 28, 2010

Yule Love My New Holiday Assignment

While there are still a few days left to do my Naughty November Assignment, I am already working on my December Holiday Assignment. As usual, it will have a Yule/Christmas theme, however it is going to have Three Levels of Difficulty... or perhaps I should say "Sissification":

- Level One is a holiday panty assignment for those who don't normally crossdress, and generally would only wear panties in order to please their Mistress and/or because they enjoy the feel of them.

- Level Two is an online shopping assignment for sissies and other CDs/TVs/etc. who want to crossdress in sexy little outfits for their Mistress, but aren't able to do so because of privacy reasons.

- Level Three is a dressup assignment for sissies and other CDs/TVs/etc. who can find the time/privacy to buy and wear a special outfit just for me.

I expect most of my boys to participate at Level One, whereas my jezi will certainly do Level Two and will hopefully have the privacy for Level Three.

To participate, email me at ForMistressMagick *at* Yahoo *dot* com and request my Yule Assignment. Check back here for more updates.

Picture: Jingle Bell Boy Shorts from Frederick's:,default,pd.html?cgid=li70

Sunday, November 21, 2010

Kink-Colored Glasses: Norman Rockwell & Writing Lines

It's quite obvious that the Written Punishments group, and the boys who are writing lines for me, have given me WP-colored glasses!

[Once you have experienced a kink, it can cause you have a tendency to look at the everyday world in a new way. I have dubbed this seeing the world through "kink-colored glasses". ;-) ]

Today, wolfmoon and I went to see the Norman Rockwell exhibit at the North Carolina Museum of Art. Included in the exhibit were tear sheets of all 323 of Rockwell's Saturday Evening Post covers. Early in his career (published October 27, 1917), he did one of a boy writing lines. It caught my eye, and, of course, I had to share it you. I wasn't able to take a photo, but I found this picture of it:


Thanksgiving Assignment - UK Style

My British assistant "test drove" the original Thanksgiving assignment today using Paxo. Some key points from his early feedback:

- It took about 30 minutes for the stuffing to cool enough to play with it.
- It stuck to his hands more than to his cock. Not sure why.
- Be careful not to get any of the onion bits from the stuffing in the urethra.
- It felt VERY erotic, and things went very quickly...though thoughts of serving me may have had something to do with that! ;-)
- Lucky for you boys, the strong taste of the Sage & Onion Stuffing overshadows the taste of the cum! ;-)

Update: The full report is now posted here:


Alternative Naughty November/Thanksgiving Assignment

I've updated my November assignment to include the option of doing an alternate version which uses cranberry sauce instead of stuffing. This is to allow those who can't eat gluten or who don't have the time/facities/privacy to make the stuffing to join in, however, I have decided to make both options open to everyone. You might even enjoy doing them both!

Click here to read the first report from the cranberry sauce version:
Alternative Naughty November/Thanksgiving Assignment Report

For those who don't already know, this a Messy Masturbation/Food Play Assignment, and it is definitely more naughty than my usual ribbon & panty ones! And, yes, a penis is required. ;-)

The deadline for completion of the assignment is November 30. Even if you are traveling for the holiday, or have family visiting, that should be enough time to give everyone an opportunity to join in.

Email: ForMistressMagick *at* Yahoo *dot* com and request the assignment for details.

Cranberry Sauce Art from:

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Written Punishments at Work!

The above pic is Mr. August from the 2011 Porn for Women Calendar, which I just received as a tribute. With all the recent written punishments and assignments that I have been giving, I had to share this with everyone. I love the way that his tie is thrown back, and he seems to really be getting into it. ;-)

The calendar is often more silly than sexy, but it is still fun, and it definitely makes me smile. The sexiest guy, and the only one with his shirt off, is the one on the cover, which you can see below. Enjoy!

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Naughty November Assignment:
"Cock & Cum Stuffing"

Update: My new Naughty November "Messy Food Masturbation" Assignment, which jezi aptly nicknamed "Cock and Cum Stuffing", has now been emailed.

If you would like to take part, and have not received it, email ForMistressMagick *at* yahoo *dot* com and request it.

PS - I now have an alternative version available in case you are allergic to gluten, or don't have the capability to prepare the stuffing. If that is the case, make sure to ask me for information on the alternative version, and tell me why you need/want to do it.

Saturday, November 13, 2010

Written Punishments, Cock Control and an Excellent Punishment & Infractions Report

The report below, published with permission, is a illustration of why certain boys ask me for written punishments. It is from a new punishee, not WP2, whose better reports I have been publishing in my InHerService blog.

The first boy who approached me for written punishments (neither of these two) asked to be made to write lines and submit fines for his disrespectful acts toward women, such as cutting them off in traffic, or leering at certain parts of their anatomy. (I now call these punishments "lines and fines" because that is exactly what they are.) He wanted me to role play as a judge, representing the Court of Women, and punishing him for his misdeeds toward the better half of the human race.

Around this time I asked my boy, ed cantor, if he could see me, a loving Domme, in the role of a firm and strict "Lady Disciplinarian", the title given to me by this boy, to which he responded with a lovely piece, called simply "Disciplinarian" which some of you may remember. It reminded me, with the warmest glow, that a firm hand sometimes shows more love than a permissive smile.

As I started giving this first boy his punishments, I found that the Superior Female/"Goddess archetype" in me was really enjoying handing them down. I asked him more about the culture of written punishments, and was directed to a Yahoo Group dedicated to them. I joined and am really enjoying being a part of the group. I have learned a lot there about new and different types of written punishments: essays, copying, etc., as well as ways to make writing lines more difficult.

I also now have a WP Assistant there, johnj, who helps me with researching new assignments and potential punishees/trainees. He is great at brainstorming, gives good feedback, and if I ask him to do something, I know that it WILL be done, and promptly so.

The group itself has more of a classroom/school days focus, with weekly homework essays, students being punished for acting up in class, etc. Like the boys that I am training off-list, I do generally prefer a more adult approach. I have found that the boys who come to me off-list usually do so for one of two reasons:

- They want to be punished for activities that are not suitable to be discussed on a PG-rated list. These included excessive masturbation, leering at women, porn addiction, causing women to go out of their way to bend over so they can get a better view, fingering a female friend's unworn panties, etc.

I'm starting to combine punishments for boys like these with cock control, requiring chastity while they do their punishment work, and only potentially allowing a release, as I dictate, once their work has been completed and accepted by me. Obviously, this is a strong motivator to finish their task. At the same time, it teaches them to better control their urges and to focus on respecting women rather than on using them for their own pleasure. It is my firm belief that a man's penis is for the pleasure of the woman (or women) in his life, and that he will gain the most pleasure from it when he learns to focus on her needs and desires instead of on his own selfishness.

- They want to be punished in ways that they can't be on the list.

The biggie is the desire to send me lines so that I can tear them up. After many years of refusing offers from boys who wanted to buy me a webcam (I didn't want one because I didn't want to cam), I finally gave in for one of these punishees. It has always been my feeling that going on cam in an intimate way is a sexual service and is often very slutty. (I also wish to protect my identity for work reasons.) Therefore, as a Domme, it has always been my policy that I do not cam, but I do enjoy watching boys cam for me as long as they are respectful, focused on me, follow orders, etc. In this case, I am videotaping only my hands as I tear up the lines or essay. Therefore, it is not live, and only shows exactly what I want it to show. The "careful exhibitionist" in me does enjoy that part, and I'm contemplating doing future videos of just my feet, etc. For now, I have a couple boys who are willing to airmail me their work from the UK just so that I can tear it up!

I can also have boys wear certain items (panties, male thong, cock ring, etc.) or do their writing in certain locations, in order to remind them of the reason for their punishment and/or make them feel more submissive while doing it. These additions are not allowed for on-list assignments, however they can add significantly to the experience. Reading some of WP2's reports shows just how much:

I must admit that I am finding the written punishments combined with cock control to be a huge turn-on and they are often my favorite. I'm enjoying having trainees write for other reasons as well, such as improving their health, or recreating a memory or fantasy from another time, and I'm even starting to combine off and onlist training for some boys whose training is less sexual in nature. This is because we enjoy the exhibitionism of having them report the punishments on the list and/or because it adds an element to the possible punishment (being under the list rules adds the possibility of expulsion from the list) for list members whose tasks are not completed in a timely manner. I may write more about that later.

For now, I will leave you to read the report:

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Dear Mistress Magick,

Thank you for accepting my work, it makes me happy to know that the work was up to your high standards. As you noted, the scanner itself has seen better days, and does produce some spots.

I will remember your suggestion of a thank you paragraph if I'm required to write lines to you once again.

Thank you for granting me an orgasm, it was enjoyable to give myself release on your command. You requested that I think of and report on other offences:

In terms of other porn-viewing occasions, there are so many that it's difficult to know where to begin. I have been interested in porn and kinky porn for many years, and have spent quite a lot of time viewing it. I have nothing against the production or viewing of porn per se, though I find that the way porn is produced and consumed is quite symptomatic of the subjugation and objectification of women in society. However, I often have found myself spending many hours viewing porn, in search of the one picture that really does it for me and takes me over the edge. These are hours that I'm spending on my own pleasure, rather than doing more productive things for myself or for my Goddess. The submissive in me finds the waste of hours of time looking at porn to be unacceptable.

However, one common situation does stand out to me. My partner is an early riser and often goes to bed before me. I am a late bird, so I would often not go to bed with her, but rather stay up a bit later. Often I would feel horny and end up staying up very late, viewing porn and masturbating. And I would usually feel guilty afterwards...I should have been pleasuring and hugging my Goddess, but instead I've wasted my time objectifying other women and focusing my energy on them.

The other thing that I've felt deserves to be punished is my sometimes leering behaviour on the street. I smoke (yes, I do want to quit at some point, but not right at the moment. And when I do I think I want to keep quitting and my kink separate.) so when I'm at work I go outside the building and smoke. When I do so, I often find myself pacing around and turning my head in order to have a look at the buttocks of women who walk by on the sidewalk. Now, I think it's somewhat natural to look at an attractive person who walks by. But it's another thing to do so in an obvious way...and I think I cross that line sometimes. Especially when I'm feeling horny, I will leer at the bottoms of the women who walk by. I would like to change this behaviour, and I have to some extent, but there is also something quite natural and automatic about eyeing attractive people who walk by. I feel that some discipline might do me some good, though I also struggle to find a good strategy to avoid leering. Do I stare at the ground instead? There is just something so natural about watching the women walk by, I struggle to avoid it.

As to my feelings being punished, I found the experience quite powerful. I had to muster the courage to ask for a punishment on the list. Requesting punishment is a weird thing. I didn't think I'd really enjoy writing all those lines, so requesting something that will be less than pleasant is a weird thing. But I also kink on it. One thing is kinking on the punishment and having a sort of play 'offence' to justify it. But if it is something that I really feel bad about and want to change, then it somehow goes beyond just play somehow. Because a lot of kinky play is activity that I really like...but writing lines?? But I asked...and waited for a response.

I was quite excited when I got your response. I have found that anticipation can be very stimulating, guessing at what your punishment might be. I thought of doing the lines not because I wanted to, but because I wanted to improve myself and also obey a dominant woman. So that was a happy, nervous sort of anticipation. When I got the assignment, I was still quite turned on by the thought of the punishment. I savoured the opportunity to carry out your command.

Once I began writing the lines, I found it tedious, boring and painful. It was not really fun to spend all that time writing lines and having my hand hurt, even if I am a bit of a masochist. However, I knew why I was writing them and knew that I just needed to go ahead and finish. Wearing a thong while writing them also reminded me of my submission and my desire to be a good submissive slut. In my mind I thought that this punishment might help me to avoid the offensive behaviour, which made me hopeful at the same time. And I have to say I am proud that I now haven't viewed porn since the beginning of last weekend. Not really much time to be proud of, but it is nonetheless satisfying.

All that time, I didn't masturbate. With my lover not around and knowing I didn't have permission to orgasm, I found it was actually easier than I thought to abstain from playing with myself. When she is around, I think I find her presence arousing (as it should be!) and so chastity periods can be quite teasing and frustrating. But this one has been a bit easier, perhaps because I've started to exercise on a more regular basis in the last couple of weeks. I find that does alter the patterns of my libido.

When I finally finished all the lines, I was quite happy and pleased with myself. I scanned them and converted the files (I'm a techie IT person, but it still took me a couple hours to scan and convert!) and sent them off to you. Then began another period of anticipation. But we subs must learn that sometimes we have to wait. Would you accept them? Would I get an additional punishment? Would I be granted an orgasm. Submitting to your decisions in those matters is both slightly nerve-racking and also quite erotic.

I waited in anticipation of your email and instructions. When I received your email, I was joyed to hear that I could have an orgasm. This morning, I did my 15 minutes exercise, then kneeled in the bedroom and masturbated to thoughts of you, of submitting to your punishment, of my Lovely Goddess, and of how it is to have someone else controlling my cock. I came in the shot glass. Then I tipped it back and drank it. It went down pretty quick. I really dislike the taste of my cum, I just don't enjoy it. It was quite difficult to do, but I know what my orders were and carried them out. Drinking my own seed feels quite powerful, as it really is something that I would *not* follow through with if left to my own devices. But I did it, and it feels like a very submissive act. I also feel there is a sort of justice to it, since I am 'cleaning up my own mess' instead of leaving stains on bed sheets, underwear, etc. So it's powerful, but I'd definitely say I'm not used to the taste itself...I don't think I'll ever get used to that. Now the taste of a woman, on the other hand... :)

And so that's where I am now. It's after midnight, but I still feel like I can feel a bit of the salty protein-rich taste on my tongue. And another day has past in which I have not viewed porn. And now I wonder when my next orgasm might be...since I have agreed that that is not in my control right now.

Thank you for taking the time to punish me, and for controlling my cock. It is a sometimes contradictory and strange journey, but I find it quite captivating and exciting. I guess that's sexual submission.

Thank you for reading these rambling notes I have written.

Yours truly,

Monday, November 8, 2010

What's the punishment for slaves who come too you give permission to your slaves to lick their own you fist them...

Slaves who cum before they are given permission to do so are not allowed to serve in that capacity again until they learn better control. If they have any problems understanding that they are there for my pleasure and not for their own, they are dismissed.

I *require* my boys to consume their own cum. Being trained in Tantric practices, I believe that to do otherwise is to waste their energy. This is also another sign of their submission to me.

I don't fist anyone, and know other ways to stimulate the prostate, if I care to do so.

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

"Don't Be A Turkey"
Assignment Contest

I think I want to do something with a turkey theme for my November assignment, but what? I can't imagine having you dress as one. So I decided to ask you, my loyal readers:  If you were to imagine a turkey assignment or other kinky Thanksgiving-themed assignment, what would it be?

Send your idea to me at ForMistressMagick *at* yahoo *dot* com by November 10. If I select your idea, you will have an opportiunity to "test drive" the assignment that I write based on it with me. You will also be recognized (using whatever name you choose) in my blog & on Twitter... and perhaps in an upcoming book as well.

P.S. I do also have a "messy masturbation" idea for one using a particular food. I'm just not sure if it's the one that I want to use. If you want to give it a try, email me and request it.

Sunday, October 31, 2010

Halloween/Samhain Treat:
"Elvira" Pics of Mistress Magick

For Halloween only, two "vintage" pics, circa 1989, of me wearing one of those sexy, low-cut Elvira dresses. These are from my college days, with a skirt slit up to there, showing spiderweb stockings. Scanned from old photos, one is a full body view, and the other is a closeup of my face, as I blow you a kiss. 
(And no, I don't have that perm any more! ;-) )

You boys know that I don't normally sell or post face and body pics, and therefore these are priced for the discerning collector.

Paypal payments can be sent to ForMistressMagick *at* yahoo *dot* com. Make sure that you include the email address where you want the .jpgs sent.

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Do you like a totally willing bottom, or one who struggles a bit?

I like a sincere submissive with a true desire to serve and to please. Why waste my energy fighting with a boy when I could be enjoying him instead.

Ask me something worthy of a response. *Adults Only*

Steamy Vintage Silk Stockings Ad
Starring Kim Basinger (circa 1992)

After seeing this commercial at Hot Sexy Fashion Pictures, I had to share it with all my foot, shoe and stocking fetishists.
And, honestly, the sheer tease of it will be good for all my boys & gurls!

Saturday, October 23, 2010

NC Fetish Art Festival 2010
Part One: The Art

A week ago Friday, wolfmoon escorted me to the 2010 NC Fetish Art Festival: "A Bad Romance".

The evening was a mixture of various types of fetish-themed art combined with a couple sets of stage performances.

The majority of art hanging in the gallery was actually photography, with a only few paintings, line drawings and mixed media pieces. My favorite, pictured at right, did not have a title listed. I love the sexy legs and shoes, kicking off the panties, and suspect that the model is a CD. The frame and flecks of paint, which aren't very visible in the photo, made this piece at least as much as the photo itself.  If you know what it's called and the name of the artist, please let me know. I know that she had dreadlocks, but I failed to get her information.

I personally love pen and ink, and the piece at the left, "(S)ex Libris" by K.S. Burton, made me think of yummy erotica and of strong, sexy intelligent women, like Literatrix.

I also didn't get the info for the one at right, but it made me think of me sitting with my legs crossed in delicate stockings, over the bound and fishnet covered legs of one of my girls, especially my darling jezi-girl. I like the feeling of closeness, with the touch of domination that is implied... holding her down... being above her.

Speaking of time with the girls, while I was taking pictures, I had to snap one of the poster at right, which was displayed, appropriately, in the ladies' room.

We noticed that the majority of the art was actually focused on female submission. wolfmoon pointed out the photo that later won Best in Show as one with a male submissive theme. Shown at right, "Love is a Drag" by Lisa Johnson, includes a soft CD twist on a traditional romantic theme. We were sitting right beside the photographer when she won and it was nice to be able to talk to her about the piece.

Third Place was certainly one of the more interesting pieces. Entitled "Ode to Hugh Hefner", the mixed media creation at left by Amanda Bushman had an emphasis on boobs, bras and butts, in the style of classic pinup girls.

There were also two metal pieces by M. Abrams that really caught my eye. The one pictured at the right was "Untitled", but had a long explanation about male virility and sperm, so it is no surprise that it immediately inspired thoughts of having a boy kneeling, held in place with his cock and balls through the ring. (The inside of the ring was a good 2 1/2" in diameter - actually too large for many boys, but still close enough in fantasy, especially considering that the wearer would also have to adjust his stance for the height of the stand.) The other was a paddle with the word "slut" spelling out in Morse code along it's length.

The live art included a series of suspension demos, two different types of body painting, and a female switch that I know creating a picture on another woman's back using ribbons and needles. I especially like the Black Light Body Painting by Living Brush shown at left.

I don't know where to start with all the performances, and I still need to see which of those photos are clear enough to use so this is
To Be Continued...

All photos taken by M. Magick.

Do you prefer having a slave do tease and denial or use them more as sub (pain, etc.) or both?

Actually, being a sub doesn't have to have anything to do with receiving pain, and many of those so-called "subs" are actually S&M bottoms. Submission has to do with submitting to my desires, and in that sense, I tend to prefer subs who are focused on my service and pleasure.

I do consider myself a sensualist rather than a sadist, so I tend to go for the tease and denial.

However... I have been told that I am more of a sadist than I admit to. I will admit that I have a bit of an evil streak, and that it sometimes includes see exactly how much a boy can take. Where is that line? Hmmmm... let's see...

Ask me something worthy of a response. *Adults Only*

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

My Beautiful Birthday Girl:
jezi's Birthday Panties & Edging/Release Report

I treated my wonderful sissy, jezi-darling, to a couple new pairs of panties for her birthday. She has been such a good girl lately, and definitely deserved some new pretties from me.

First, I got her a pair of rhumba panties in our color (purple) and my favorite color (black). The website didn't have the best sizing info, and I probably should have gotten the next size bigger so the lace would be more ruffled, but they still look damn sexy on her, and really show off my property!

Then I added a pair of ruffle-trimmed satin bikinis with a pinup design. I suggested that every sissy have a pair, so, of course, I had to make sure that my girl had them!

For the actual day itself, I instructed her dress to up in lacy lingerie for me: a black corset-style baby doll trimmed in pink rose-design lace, black rhumba panties with garters trimmed in matching pink ribbons, black stockings and sexy, black heels.

Even though she had only been back in mental chastity for a few days, I allowed her a special edging and release day to celebrate. I made her ramp up the edging this time, not allowing her a chance to cool down between edges, and it had the desired effect. ;-) I thought I'd share her edging report with you.

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i wore the more black [lingerie] for the edging and release as well as our [cock] ring.

i edged twice as requested. The second was quite intense, and i dribbled a bit and gasped.

On the third time my release was incredible as i knelt for my Mistress and repeated my devotion to You.

Your cock, Mistress.
Your girl, Mistress.
Your pleasure, Mistress.

i came amazingly, what a birthday treat!, and collected all i could, cleaning myself with my tongue.

Thank You for my gifts and for being my Mistress


Your now chaste girl again, [my private name for her]

Pics taken by jezi and edited by M. Magick.
Shoppinvg Links:
Ruffled Boyshorts:
Satin Pin-up Bikinis:

Monday, October 11, 2010

Foot Worship

Receiving foot worship is one of my all-time favorite kink activities. I love having my feet rubbed, and having my toes sucked for hours by a boy who really gets into it gets me going like nothing else.

However, I do think that real foot worship can only be done in person. It's like giving a massage: a cyber massage is nice, but it's still not a real massage.

And, while foot baths* and vibrating slippers can be wonderful, I've never found one that comes close to the pleasure of having a boy at my feet massaging and sucking. And, obviously, an online pedicure isn't something that I can show off by wearing sexy sandals.

That being said, I do understand that there are fetishist who enjoy looking at my feet, and reading about them for their own pleasure. (Please do not delude yourself into thinking that imaging my feet as you pleasure yourself is at all submissive, or is any sort of service to me, because it is not!) These are the fetishists for which I post pics for sale because this is a service that I am providing to them, and not the other way around.

And, yes, when they are respectful and somewhat submissive, I sometimes do really enjoy talking to a foot boy, and describing my feet for him via a service such as Niteflirt. However, I do want to hear your voice - your breath - your moans - so that I can really hear my power over you via the effect that my words and pics are having on you. Hearing that, as you call me Mistress, can, and does, make me hot. ;-)

*Mmm.. I could use a new heated, massaging foot bath. Mine broke some time ago, and I haven't replaced it. That is one way that a foot boy can pamper me from afar, and one like this would make a nice gift, perhaps even a holiday present:

Another obvious way is to treat me to a pedicure. I always feel pampered as I watch the girl rubbing my feet and doing my toe nails, knowing that a boy is having them done for my pleasure. ;-) I am also happy to take pics and love showing off my pretty toesies in return.

Picture: "Yin Yang Footrubs" taken my Mistress Magick at Saturday night's foot party.
Yes, that is my foot! ;-)

i'd love to feel your sexy toes digging into my crotch mistress..while i sniff the sole of your other you indulge your foot boy like that? :-)

Sniffing? I'd put your hands and mouth to work rubbing, kissing and sucking!

It's not unusual for me to start by putting my other foot in your crotch, pressing against your hardness and using it for leverage as I slide back, f'ing your mouth with other foot. But eventually both feet will go to your mouth... or be pressing against your shoulder or chest as I use you.

Ask me something worthy of a response. *Adults Only*

Saturday, October 9, 2010

Definition of a "Pro-Domme"

I think I just found a definition that I like!

"Someone who wants her cake and eats it too, from a silver platter delivered by a kneeling subbie who has paid for the privilege of serving one of life's most wonderful creations."

Edited from:

wow your "footrub" story with your sisters made me hard! :-) you have female footslaves? do you fuck them with your toes? :-)

Wow.. someone is a horny boy!

No, I've had enough experience with women to know that I'm actually quite straight. I like kissing and cuddling with women, but when it comes to sexual things, I need someone with a real cock attached, whether I desire to use it or not. And considering how very *hot* foot worship makes me, I'm only interested in foot *boys*.

Ask me something worthy of a response. *Adults Only*

Thursday, October 7, 2010

My October "Hallo-weenie" Assignment is Now Available

I've emailed out my October assignment. It's one of my traditional ribbon assignments, and I'm looking forward to all you boys & gurls having your packages decorated for my pleasure. ;-)

Email: ForMistressMagick *at* yahoo *dot* com and request the assignment to join in.

Ribbons by Martha Stewart! and available at:

Wear Purple on October 20 in Memory of Six Gay Boys who Recently Committed Suicide

It may be "off topic" for my blog, but I plan to participate and encourage you to do so as well.


date: Wednesday, October 20, 201o
where: Everywhere
cost: Nothing
dress code: PURPLE

*This event was not created by me. It was created by someone who cares deeply on Tumblr, and I am only spreading the word.*

It’s been decided. On October 20th, 2010, we will wear purple in honor of the 6 gay boys who committed suicide in recent weeks/months due to homophobic abuse in their homes and at their schools. Purple represents Spirit on the LGBTQ flag and that’s exactly what we’d like all of you to have with you: spirit. Please know that times will get better and that you will meet people who will love you and respect you for who you are, no matter your sexuality. Please wear purple on October 20th. Tell your friends, family, co-workers, neighbors and schools. RIP Tyler Clementi, Asher Brown, Seth Walsh, Justin Aaberg, Raymond Chase and Billy Lucas. You are loved.

Join this event and invite everyone on your friends list. Don't let their deaths be for nothing. Let it mean something, and let's do something to change this country for once.

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Formspring Me

Unfortunately, my Formspring answers keep automagically posting to the wrong blog:
Formspring isn't set up for someone who has two blogger blogs to select where they should post, so if you want to see my answers check there or on Formspring proper.

And, in the mean time, ask me something worthy of a response.
*Adults Only*

Saturday, October 2, 2010

Updated Sissy Chastity Release Rules

I'll be rolling the dice for sissydollyanne again tonight. Below are her updated dice rules. A you boys know, I have different release instructions for my own gurls:

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Chastity Dice Rules - rev 2
This is for those sissies or subs (or their Mistresses or a Masters) who want their chastity and release controlled by the chance of the dice. All rolls of the dice should be done in the presence of witnesses so there is NO cheating! If possible, a Mistress or Master should roll the dice so they can make sure everything is done properly.

First Roll
- Roll a single six-sided die.

This determines whether there is the possibility of release as well as how many dice to use on the second roll. If the roll is:

#1-#5 — NO release with possible "try again" option.
#6 — possibility of release

Second Roll (When first roll = 1-5)
This determines the number of days of chastity before the next roll for release. The number of dice used is equal to the number shown on the first roll. Thus, if a “4” is rolled with the first roll, then 4 dice are used to determine the number of days of chastity. If it was a “5”, then 5 dice are used, a “2” then 2 dice are used, etc. The number shown with the roll of that many dice determines the number of days of chastity before the next roll.

Note 1: "Try Again" option
If a 6 is not rolled on the first roll, and if all parties are in agreement, including the rollers of the dice, there can be a "try again", but with an additional die and with the requirement that all sixes be rolled for possible relief.

For example, if a "6" is not rolled on the first roll, and all parties are in agreement to do a "try again", then a new roll is done, only this time with with 2 dice. A "12"--all sixes--has to be rolled for possible relief. Any other number determines the number of dice to use to determine the number of days of chastity. So, for example, if a try again yielded a "9", with the two dice, then NINE dice would be used for the 2nd roll. The number of try agains (adding one die and requiring all sixes each time) is up to the unanimous agreement of all parties.

Second Roll (When first roll = “6”)
A “6” grants the possibility of release, but two more rolls are necessary to: 1) determine the conditions of release, 2) determine the number of days of chastity after release.

Note 2: If a "6" is rolled, release is NOT optional for the sissy or sub, but the Mistress or Master rolling the dice may override the dice result if they so choose, or are persuaded to do so. Rolling a "6" is the only time such negotiation is allowed. If release is denied, then the sissy or sub may negotiate for release with the Master or Mistress dice roller. If for some reason, the sissy or sub doesn't want to be released, they must beg the Mistress or Master rolling the dice to override the dice and keep keep them in chastity and meet whatever conditions they impose.

If you are granted release, your number of continuous chastity days is reset back to zero and your count starts over when you are re-locked. If you are denied release, or have persuaded the Master or Mistress rolling the device to keep you locked, then your chastity count will keep incrementing.

1) Roll to determine conditions of release.
The following is primarily for sissies in chastity who are controlled by the dice. If you have a Mistress or Master they may use these or choose a method they prefer.


If you are a sissy you will prepare for release as if you are getting ready for a date! For example, you may:

Shave your legs and entire body. Pluck your eyebrows. Wash, brush, and style your hair or wig. Take an enema and lube your sissy pussy. Apply cherry red lipstick and shiny gloss. Polish your toe nails and finger nails a bright pink. Dress in sexy panties and a babydoll nightie.

You will post a full report on exactly how you prepared and dressed for relief and how you felt.

Roll a single six-sided die as on the first roll. The numbers are interpreted as follows:

#1 — Have the cummie in your panties by rubbing your nipples only
#2 — Have the cummie by pulling your panties to the side and using a dildo in your sissy pussy only
#3 — Have the cummie by rubbing your clitty through your panties only
#4 — Have the cummie in your panties by humping a pillow while in panties
#5 — Have the cummie in your panties while on your back with your legs & arms wrapped around a pillow
#6 — Wild card. You may have a cummie in any manner you choose!

Note 2: You have 24 hours after you roll to have a cummie, if granted. At the end of that time or right after the cummie, whichever comes first, you must lock back up immediately for the number of days determined by 6 dice in the next step. You must lick up and swallow your cummie completely. Your number of continuous chastity days is reset to zero.

2) Roll to determine number of days of chastity
Since the first roll was a “6” you must use 6 dice to determine the number of days of chastity before the next roll to possibly grant release again.

Thursday, September 30, 2010

October Halloweenie (Ribbon) Assignment

sissy male maid
Of course, the obvious assignment for Halloween is to encourage you to express your deepest fantasy on the one night that you can go out dressed as a school girl, puppy dog, sissy maid, baby or well.. a kinky boy in a collar, leash, leather restraints, body harness and ball gag. (Although folks might wonder why you spent so much money on that last costume!)

I *am* going to encourage that, but I know some of you boys can't wear certain things when you take the kids out trick or treating, or live in countries when adults don't dress up as much as they do here in the States, so I am also going to give a classic ribbon assignment for Halloween. In that way, you can wear my ribbons under your costume, under your normal clothes... or over your birthday suit.. and still be apropriately dressed for the holiday! ;-)

I'm sure you already know the acceptable colors and designs for the ribbons, but you should still email me (ForMistressMagick *at* yahoo *dot* com) for the details.

Male Maid Pic:

If You Would Like To Apply to Me...

UPDATE: My most popular monthly assignments are available on Amazon.
Check here before emailing me:

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Instead of sifting through emails, I've been asking new potentials to do my monthly training assignments. They are meant to be a sampler of interests and fetishes that can easily be explored long distance, have included activities such as:

* buying & wearing panties
* wearing ribbons or other items on your "package"
* learning to wear endless "o" cock rings
* discovering your inner bunny-self
* puppy play
* dressing as a school girl
... and more.

As they cover a variety of topics, I don't expect every sub to excel at every task, and, when they asked to apply, some excellent aspiring subs found that they had no interest in that month's assignment.

Because of this, I've also decided to make two of my favorite training assignments available upon request:

- Cock Ring Training
- Panty Shopping & Wearing

You should also complete these assignments if you are interested in participating in my #MMDays, so making them available year-round makes sense.

Doing my assignments is a good way for me to get to know available/aspiring online subs, and to make sure that they are respectful, willing to follow instructions, able to tribute, interesting and intelligent, etc. Time permitting, I often invite those who really impress me with their work and interactions to advance to more personalized training.

In order to take part, email:
                   ForMistressMagick *at* yahoo *dot* com
and ask for the either the current assignment, or one of the two mentioned above.

To be clear, these assignments and online-only positions are available to married subs, as long as they have the time, finances and privacy to take part, and, in fact, many of my personal online boys and gurls are married/attached. (However, I do not train married subs in person.) I am willing to work with a sub, within reason, on timing, if needed to work around your schedule at home.

Also, you do not have to be applying to me to participate in my assignments. All male or M-to-F subs and fetishists are welcome to join in, as long as they have approval from their Mistress, if they have one. I especially enjoy having other subs and fetishist join in on the holiday assignments.

For more info, read:

Info & Thoughts on my Current & Past Assignments:

Select Assignment Reports:

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Kink Academy

Kink Academy is looking for a few good bloggers, and I hope to be one of them.

As many of you know, I have taken classes through Power Play Academy and I regularly attend their monthly FemDom CHAT, hosted by friends of mine. I see the two websites as being complementary resources in that they each serve a different need but can easily be used together for a more complete approach.

Power Play Academy has web-based classes with real-time interaction, where you can chat, ask questions, etc., while watching slides and/or cam demos. Classes may meet only once or on a specified schedule over a couple weeks or a month, and those that meet regularly may have homework for completion between sessions. Like a more traditional classroom setting, it has the advantage of allowing for interaction between participants, but it also requires waiting for the next class "semester" to begin and, of course, the student has to be available according to the class schedule. Payment is by class, and some monthly discussions are offered for free.

In contrast, Kink Academy has an on-demand approach, with a large selection of educational videos which are available 24/7. You can view a suggested curriculum, get suggestions by experience level, subject, toy or faculty member, or simply search for a keyword. Payment is by month, and some videos are offered for free. There are also discounts for paying for three months or a year at one time.

I greatly enjoy the interaction and community support that Power Play Academy offers, but I love the idea of having 24/7 access to all the how-to videos at Kink Academy. I've been in and out of the scene since 1995, and while I am an expert in some areas, I would consider myself at the intermediate level for many of the Kink Academy topics. The reason is that I tend to be a sensual, service-oriented Domme, and it's honestly been a long time since I've tied a karada or flogged someone. There are quite a few areas where I have attended in-person classes over the years, and know the basics, but I don't practice the techniques on a regular basis. So, while I do feel confident, but rusty, in much of the basic knowledge that is offered on the site, I also know that I don't know all the tricks... and, well, having a skill and safety refresher course is always a good place to begin when it's been a while.

There are also many areas where it is a lot easier to learn from watching a video than from a book, or it is difficult to find someone locally who has the same level of expertise as the presenters here. There are activities that I've only watched (cupping, needle play), and others that I know well (foot fetishes, puppy play), but where I always welcome new ideas and angles. The more that I look at the site, the more I realize how diverse the information is, covering relationships and sexual health as well as kink.. and all with a focus on safety and skill building rather than on titillation. There is so much here to watch that a newbie could easily get overwhelmed, and I'm starting to understand why specific curriculum suggestions are available to help new students find their way. Kink Academy is easily worth the cost of admission, and I do want to thank my darling jezi-girl for tributing mine. I plan to make good use of it whether I get the position or not.

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

jezi's First Official Chastity Release Report

My personal sissy, jezi, joined us in the dice room when I first rolled the dice for sissydollyanne on September 10. jezi has been curious about chastity for some time, but she isn't in a situation where she can wear a device. In the dice room, she agreed to let me roll one die for her and commited to follow it through, which she did with flying colors.

You can read all about it, including jezi's first official chastity release report, in my In Her Service blog. She can be very shy, and I am *very* proud of her for allowing me to post it. :-)

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