"50 Shaders Trounced At BDSM Club" And Some Advice For The Curious

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sophie & jezi's Rumba Panties/Knickers Reviews & New Review Policy

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Boys Need to Think on Their Feet & Anticipate Their Mistresses' Needs

Your job, as a sub, is to make your Mistress' life easier and more pleasurable. This doesn't have to be difficult, and you should get better at it as you get to know your Mistress, what she likes and how she likes it.

Something happened recently with a boy which I still don't quite understand. I assumed that any male, submissive or not, would know what to do and proceed to do it. Yes, I did assume rather than give specific orders, but this is one of those areas where it's just the normal thing to do, so you shouldn't need orders - or so I thought. I've debated over posting this because part of it is venting, but I've decided that it would also be a good lesson for anyone else who also needs a clue.

In this case, it was a sub who I had spent time with several years ago, but who didn't work out. He had contacted me, saying that his attitude had changed - that he had learned to focus on pleasing his Goddess rather than on himself - and wanted to try again. I wasn't so sure, but after some consideration I decided that it wouldn't hurt to at least meet as there were some aspects of him that I had enjoyed.

Said sub promised me a nice dinner as soon as he was able to do so, and knew that I wanted to go to a favorite steak place because I was craving their prime rib. Because of his work schedule and the distance between us, he said that he could only do dinner on the weekend. That was more than fine, however, it meant that we were going to this yummy steak restaurant, located in the plaza area attached to a large shopping mall, on one of the busiest nights of the week. This mall doesn't have a parking deck, and I knew parking might take a while and require a bit of a walk, as well as the wait at the restaurant itself. I confirmed that he knew where it was located, and then I called to confirm that they had the prime rib that night, and made reservations. After thinking about it, I also called to check on another restaurant, located only a couple doors away, that I also love. I was craving the second place's frozen, fruity drinks, and with the summer heat, I was considering whether I might prefer their lighter fare, but they were not taking reservations.

As it was nearing time for dinner, I realized that I was running late getting in the shower. I called and left him voice mail saying that I was going to be 15 minutes late - maybe more like 30 with parking. I knew he was already on his way, but assumed that he would use the time to find a good parking space and start making his way to the steak place to check on the seating situation. I didn't mention the other restaurant yet, as I felt it would be too complicated, and was still trying to decide which place I really wanted to eat... part of it really depended on the wait at the second place. I fully expected that he would be in, or near, the plaza by the time I got out of the shower. I have sent boys ahead to get a seat at a restaurant before. This time I was sincerely running late, but planned to call him, get a report and tell him what I wanted him to do from there.

He left me voicemail while I was in the shower saying that he was on the way and had gotten my voicemail. I called him back after I got out of the shower to check in on things. I asked where he was, and this is what I truly do not understand: He said that he had gone to the mall, but had only been able to find a space way out on the perimeter. He had been sitting in his car (Goddess only knows why!) and had gotten hot, so he had moved his car to a parking lot a mile away, on the other side of the freeway, and was just sitting there, waiting, in the shade!

I told him to get his butt back over to the mall and find parking, to check the other restaurant that I was interested in and get on the wait list there if the wait wasn't too long, but first to call the steak place and move the reservation later (as a backup) since it was already past time for our reservations. This is all stuff that he should have already been in place for and able to do. He said he didn't know the number for the steak place, so, a bit exasperated,  I said fine - that I would handle it. Sitting there in my towel, I used my smartphone to look up the number and called to move the reservation. Later, over dinner, he mentioned having a smartphone with the same OS as mine, so he could have called just as easily as I did, and not wasted my time while I was trying to get dressed. As one of my better boys said when I told him about this, even if you don't have a smartphone, use 411. "That's what phones are for!"

I quickly finished getting dressed and went over to meet him for dinner. Parking took some patience, but I was able to find a space on the same side of the plaza as the restaurants and closer than expected.

Just as I was parking, he called me and said, "We have a problem." I asked what was wrong. He said that there was some sort of performance going on on the plaza (it was just some local bands playing) and, that he couldn't find any parking! I told him I had literally just parked close to the restaurants, and that he just needed to be patient with it. I walked by valet parking as I approached the restaurants, so asked the attendant if it was available and how much it was, and then I called and told him that it was there if he needed it. Next, I went by and checked on both restaurants - getting on the waiting list, with a beeper, for the second one, and took a seat on the plaza just outside of it to listen to the music and wait on him.

Now, I ask you what is wrong with this picture?


After this happened, I asked several boys to make sure that I wasn't expecting too much:

• They all agreed that for any date, whether with a Mistress or not, they would have parked close by and would have gone to the restaurant to check on things.
• Some of them would have also offered to pay for the valet parking for me if I needed it, assuming that they saw it or knew that it was there. 
• They all would have found a way to contact the restaurant to change the reservation and would have found the number to call on their own, either by searching from their phone or by calling information. (If he wasn't sure about the exact restaurant name or street address, he could have easily asked me, and I expected him to do so if he needed more information on either restaurant.)   

Most of all, they agreed that it was their place to make things easier for me, and that they would have done the best to take care of things while they were waiting on me. And that they would have done their damnedest to make sure that I was not stuck waiting on them. 

The main issue that I see here is a lack of initiative on the part of the potential sub. If you are applying to be a personal service submissive, you should be thinking ahead and suggesting or doing things to make your Mistresses' life easier. Instead, he sat there and did nothing, which, by default, put it on me to take care of things. To make matters worse, he wasted my time by actively moving away from things rather than moving forward to handle them.

Also, sometimes I am also too nice. In retrospect, I should have made him call and handle the reservations, both beforehand and when moving the time. 

Obviously, I have not seen this boy again, and don't have any plans to do so. 

Erasing a Certain Sissy Crossdresser

A certain sissy crossdresser, that many of you may remember from Twitter, has asked me to remove his info from my blog. This includes his name, photos, Twitter user ID and links to info about him. I will be removing or editing at least three posts, and this is why.

This particular sissy regularly and frequently asked Dommes and others to blog, retweet and otherwise share personal info about him, including pics of him dressed, his legal name and address, and the url for one of his LinkedIn profiles. He was encouraging everyone to help out him as a sissy crossdresser as quickly as possible because the more that his info was out there, the more he got off on it. As of last night, at least three other Dommes have his info up on their blogs, and I know that he also had someone set up a blog for/about him, as well as his own listing on a sissy phone sex site.

I do believe in protecting the privacy of others and will do my best to protect that. I generally ask if it is okay to post anything that isn't public and what pseudonym to use for the person that I'm referring to - doubly so when posting assignment reports here or on InHerService.com. However, I'm a writer, and not in the habit of censoring my own words and thoughts, especially after they have been endorsed by the person mentioned. So, today, I'm faced with the question of how best to remove his information - information that he previously begged us all to share - without compromising the integrity of my own writing.

I had planned to go through and carefully edit each post. But, knowing that he's changed his mind before, I don't think that I should waste my time doing that at this point. Instead, I'm going to simply unpublish them for now, and then possibly go back and look at them in more detail later. So if you see pages that are missing, or posts that are no longer available, that is why.

You can probably tell that I'm not happy about this, and I expect that none of you will ever actively put me in this position again.

Chat with Me on Ingenio

Do you want to talk to someone about D/s, female-led relationships, male submission, being a sissy, crossdressing, chastity or another kink?

Are you trying to find a way to tell your girlfriend or wife about your interests?

Maybe She has questions?

Or maybe you just need to talk to a strong, caring woman who understands and has experience with a boy or gurl like you?


Don't want to have to call a phone sex site to do it? That's okay, I'm not sure if I want to be listed on one!

I set up the Niteflirt account years ago, but I primarily use it for calls with boys who had already been emailing/tweeting with me, and to send written assignments, like those that I have for puppies. I've rarely just logged in as available because I'm not interested in being used by 1 minute wankers.

I want boys and gurls who really want to talk to me so that I can get to know them and vice versa. After all, the more I understand you, the more I am able to get inside your head and find the places that we both enjoy!

Recently, I have had some great calls from a couple different crossdressers and sissies on Niteflirt, who I'm growing closer to with every call. (And, yes, that is "the pantyboy" in the picture - dressed in lingerie that I bought him!) So I've been making myself a bit more available there. However, if you are interested in talking to me, especially when I'm offline, it's best to email me first to see if I'm around for a call (ForMistressMagick *at* yahoo *dot* com), because I might be interested in talking to you, but not in the mood to be available for just anyone who calls.

Niteflirt used to have a system by which a caller could ask to schedule an appointment, which gave me a lot more control over who and when I spoke to callers. I also know that many of you would like to call me just to talk - for advice and support. And some of you would like to have someone that your wife or girlfriend could talk to.

So I've set up a listing on another site, Ingenio, that allows scheduled appointments and even Instant Messages. This is an advice site where you can talk to doctors, lawyers, mechanics, plumbers, etc. It is not an Adult site. In fact, if some guy calls me there and is obviously a wanker, I have to tell him that it isn't that kind of site, or I could be kicked off the site myself. It has a lot more features, and I'm more likely to be logging in there. I can even set it to let me know if someone wants to talk with me and find out how long you can wait so that I can log in while I'm working on other things and take the call after I am finished. It's so much more civilized! And the way that a real Domme should be treated.

Use the buttons below to IM or me via Ingenio. If you are new to the site, you will get free minutes and I'll get a bonus for referring you. I'll also give you more free minutes as a thank you for helping me test it out.

Since I'm just getting started there and don't have any feedback yet, I've set the per minute rate really low so it's the perfect time to call - especially if you've always wanted to hear my voice. :-)


            

Remember: this is an advice site, NOT a PSO Site, so behave yourself!

If we are talking and you moaning and breathing heavy, want me to describe my feet, share a fantasy or tell you what to wear, you need to ask permission to call me on Niteflirt instead. Understood?

Tonight's fireworks plans were rained out so I decided to start scanning the covers of my old collection of fetish and kink magazines, which my publisher is going to list for sale for me. In the middle of them, I found an 1996 issue of DDI (Domination Directory International) magazine filled with Post-it Note's from my very first Male Service sub and assistant, "D".

This article was marked as one to be shared with potential subs. While it was written for those seeing Pro Dommes in-person, much of it is applicable across the board, and so I thought that I would post it here.

If you have problems viewing these pages here, try: http://mistressmagick.tumblr.com/post/7250807221/how-to-impress-a-dominant-woman-2-parts-from-a

Man Arrested for Masturbating on a Plane * or * How Many Points for Edging in the Cock-Pit?

My silly, yummy boy, azpanties, asked how many Edging Game Points this would be worth:

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Florida man arrested after female passenger claims he was masturbating on plane
By Lukas I. Alpert

Entry into the Mile High Club - REJECTED.

Kyle Pearce, 25, was arrested after United Airlines Flight 340 landed in Denver from Spokane, Wash., on May 19, The Smoking Gun reported.

Authorities were alerted to Pearce's perverted proclivities when the 18-year-old woman sitting next to him told investigators she saw him pleasuring himself.

"I heard a noise and looked over and saw his penis," the woman said, according to the criminal complaint. "He ejaculated and got some on the seat. Then he went to the bathroom for a long time."

Excerpted from/Continued at: http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/2011/05/24/2011-05-24_florida_man_arrested_after_female_passenger_claims_he_was_masturbating_on_plane.html

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Well... let's see:

If you managed to edge successfully on a plane, the first edge would be:

+1 for edging
+3 if you are doing it in a place that you've never masturbated before
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= 4 points

Each additional edge would be 1 point. I would allow a +3 for an additional location if one were in the cabin and one were in one of the restrooms (not sure if I'd want to encourage you doing it in every restroom though!).... and definitely another +3 if you managed to play with your joystick in the cock-pit on a plane large enough that it is separated from the main cabin with a door.

I don't think you could argue that you "went at least a 1/4 mile out of your way" unless you bought the airline ticket just to edge, in which case you owe me a much larger tribute! :-)

Of course, if you were wearing a cock ring, then you would add +2 points to every edge for that as well.

Now...

As for this guy:

         -1,000 points for cumming without permission
       -50,000 points for getting arrested
- 1,000, 000 points for being an idiotic jerk (off) with no self-control!
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= FAIL

I hope he at least licked up all his mess!

Smart Ass Masochists (SAMs)

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Things Not To Do ~

Last night, the pantyboy asked me if I had been keeping up with a thread on one of the kinky dating/social networking sites. In all honesty, I hadn't logged in there in weeks. One look at my emails there reminded me of why... and of these:

Things To Do, and NOT To Do, When Contacting a Domme:

-Do not email both my personal and professional profiles, and presumably every other Domme on the site, most of which are not in your country, with the same form-letter email.

- If you are going to write a form letter, at least take the time to spell check it. And add a paragraph or two to each one you send out personalizing it for that particular Domme. Why are you interested in Her? Your reasons should be more than the fact that she is female and dominant.

-You might actually mention what you have to offer her, not just what she can do for you!

-Do not use text messaging abbreviations, like:
hello mistress, i came across ur profile & had 2 stop by so i c u like ur men 2 wear panties. i never wore any but i bet they feel really sexy. lol

And honestly, why is he even bothering to write me anyway? Maybe he wants me to order him into panties, but if so, he's going to have to ask for it! (And use proper spelling and capitalization in doing so.)

- Also, consider the below. He isn't rude or demanding. But why should I answer him when I already have numerous subs?

Hallo, my name is [...], from Italy.
I am interested to meet for the first time a dominant lady (also only by webcam if she prefer) to have fun and enjoy togheter.
So, now my dream is to live an experience with you, I mean you can teach me a lot about this world and i hope to have the chance to chatting with you and maybe friends.
Are you interested to meet me?
In this case please, contact me to agree.
Bye

I knew the above was a form letter even before I saw that it had been sent to my other account. I have no qualms in not answering these kinds of trolls. There is no reason that I should give you my time when you haven't taken the time to try to get to know me. Likewise, if you can't show me your intelligence and why I might enjoy you, there is no reason to even consider you.

If you want to serve me online, the best way is to ask for and complete one of my assignments. I have found this to be a much better indicator of who is actually willing to step up and meet my demands than wasting my time, or my assistant's time, trying to screen you through a series of emails. It's quite simple: if you want to train with me, show me that you are capable of doing so. Those who excel in pleasing and pampering me while doing so are the ones who are rewarded with my personal chat and email time. Obviously, the more I enjoy you, the more likely I am to talk to you, use you more intimately, etc. 

If you are local, unattached and want to get to know me, the best way is to meet me at an event and/or offer to take me to dinner.

If a Domme tells you what to do when contacting her, follow it to the letter. Do not assume that she is going to chat with you if you are too lazy or cheap to submit her application. And do not assume that completing it means automatic approval. You are one of hundreds.. even thousands, so you have to stand out: not just in general, but also in regard to Her particular needs and desires.

Oh... and those cock and ass pics that so many guys have on their profiles are NOT an indication of what women want to see (especially when we don't even know you yet, but rather of guys who have no clue what a real woman wants. They are generally only helpful if you are really looking for guys!

Kink Academy

Kink Academy is looking for a few good bloggers, and I hope to be one of them.

As many of you know, I have taken classes through Power Play Academy and I regularly attend their monthly FemDom CHAT, hosted by friends of mine. I see the two websites as being complementary resources in that they each serve a different need but can easily be used together for a more complete approach.

Power Play Academy has web-based classes with real-time interaction, where you can chat, ask questions, etc., while watching slides and/or cam demos. Classes may meet only once or on a specified schedule over a couple weeks or a month, and those that meet regularly may have homework for completion between sessions. Like a more traditional classroom setting, it has the advantage of allowing for interaction between participants, but it also requires waiting for the next class "semester" to begin and, of course, the student has to be available according to the class schedule. Payment is by class, and some monthly discussions are offered for free.

In contrast, Kink Academy has an on-demand approach, with a large selection of educational videos which are available 24/7. You can view a suggested curriculum, get suggestions by experience level, subject, toy or faculty member, or simply search for a keyword. Payment is by month, and some videos are offered for free. There are also discounts for paying for three months or a year at one time.

I greatly enjoy the interaction and community support that Power Play Academy offers, but I love the idea of having 24/7 access to all the how-to videos at Kink Academy. I've been in and out of the scene since 1995, and while I am an expert in some areas, I would consider myself at the intermediate level for many of the Kink Academy topics. The reason is that I tend to be a sensual, service-oriented Domme, and it's honestly been a long time since I've tied a karada or flogged someone. There are quite a few areas where I have attended in-person classes over the years, and know the basics, but I don't practice the techniques on a regular basis. So, while I do feel confident, but rusty, in much of the basic knowledge that is offered on the site, I also know that I don't know all the tricks... and, well, having a skill and safety refresher course is always a good place to begin when it's been a while.

There are also many areas where it is a lot easier to learn from watching a video than from a book, or it is difficult to find someone locally who has the same level of expertise as the presenters here. There are activities that I've only watched (cupping, needle play), and others that I know well (foot fetishes, puppy play), but where I always welcome new ideas and angles. The more that I look at the site, the more I realize how diverse the information is, covering relationships and sexual health as well as kink.. and all with a focus on safety and skill building rather than on titillation. There is so much here to watch that a newbie could easily get overwhelmed, and I'm starting to understand why specific curriculum suggestions are available to help new students find their way. Kink Academy is easily worth the cost of admission, and I do want to thank my darling jezi-girl for tributing mine. I plan to make good use of it whether I get the position or not.

Foot Fetishist Training Video: Don't Be That Creepy Guy!

4th of July, Troisieme Prise: Bastille Day & Beyond

Wow, it's been a HOT July! ... and not just the temperature. ;-)

About a week ago, a sub commented that I hadn't been updating my blogs recently. I thought that I had, but when I looked at them, I realized that they have been somewhat quiet. I've actually been much more busy than normal, however I was spending all of my "free" time mentoring the boys who were still completing my July ribbon assignment and getting to know the "standouts" from the group who had actually completed it on July 4th. In all, I had eight boys do the assignment: four on the 4th itself, and four on or around Bastille Day. Things are quieting back down now, as I knew they would. It just takes a while to shift through them to find the true treasures.

One thing that stands out: the two boys who ran out to buy ribbons on July 4th so that they could do the assignment on the proper day (even though they found out about it late) are also the two that I would consider the "cream" of the newbie crop. In fact, the one that I am now formally considering actually used something else to start the assignment the night before, then ran out to get the ribbons as soon as he could the next morning. He proceeded to spend an entire 24 hours in them, on my orders of course, even after having been tied up the night before. He was one eager boy, and still is, but in an a very enjoyable and delightful way.

By contrast, a couple of the boys who opted to do it later were at the exact opposite end of the spectrum. The main difference that I see in those who really excelled and those who were more work than they were worth is exactly that, respect for my time - as well as a focus on me as their Mistress, and it being an experience through which they were serving me, and a pleasure that we both shared. The worst two expected far more attention than the others, and, in the end, they were only really focused on their own pleasure.

I'd decided that using my assignments to screen potential new online submissives would be a much more productive use of my time than my previous series of email questionaires. I do think that is still true, but I am also being reminded that there will always be a certain number of wankers and jerks out there, and that sometimes I have to be hard on them. I hate having to write letters like the below, but sometimes it's necessary:

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You disrespected me in private.

You failed to complete your assignment in a timely fashion.

You disrespected me *and* embarassed me in public.

All within less than a week.

As far as I can tell, you are not sincere or submissive, and are just a horny boy looking for a cheap thrill.

I don't mind occasionally training such boys if they are respectful and if they tribute. However you have done neither.

I'm done with you.

Magick

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It is true that sometimes I honestly don't mind a boy who is just doing it for the turn-on, as long as he is honest, respectful and values my time. However, please don't expect me to give you my attention all day long when you aren't really willing to give me a reasonable exchange of energy in return.

I've decided to attempt to make prodcutive use of this experience by providing some "do's" and "don'ts" for your future reference.

I've already posted some examples of reports from the boys whom I enjoy the most when it comes to their ability to express their intimate and sensual ideas in writing.

You should also be aware that I get reports from others which I also greatly enjoy, but which aren't as flambouyant, or whose authors are more shy about having their words shared. Don't feel that you have to live up to ed and capn. Just be honest and respectful, use some common sense, and focus on my service and pleasure.

... And, well, don't do any of the following (yes, these are real examples from this most recent assignment):

- Email me asking if you should get the thick or thin ribbon, and which work better on your cock. I can't see the ribbon and I've never seen your cock, so how would I know? If I give you the leeway to be creative, I don't want to be bothered with that kind of detail. If I cared, I would have specified the width in the assignment. If you can't decide, do what the boys who excel do: Buy both, and tell me about it in your shopping report. Then I can decide if I want to select one for you to wear, or to have you wear both.

- Email me from the ribbon store at 5am my time, expecting a response. Yes, I forgive you for forgetting the time difference, but I really shouldn't have to hold your hand like that.

- Email me after 11pm the night before you are to wear the ribbons asking for my approval...doubly so when you are already expecting to do it on the last official makeup day, and have had weeks to prepare.

- Decide on your own makeup date, and proceed to do the assignment on that date without my approval.

- Delay your shopping because you want to do something to please me that isn't part of the assignment or otherwise ordered by me. I might like the surprise, but not if it makes you late. And, often, these are things that you are actually doing in order to please yourself, not me.

In this case, I really didn't care if you wore panties and hose to go shopping, and using your desire to do so as an excuse after the fact just shows how focused you were on yourself and your own fantasies. If you had actually asked, I would have told you 1) not to wait to change into them if it would make you late and 2) that I would find it far more sexy for you to wear them with the ribbons!

- Write repeatedly in you report about how the other women around you turned you on, including a picture, taken without permission, of one of the other women. As one of my other boys said, that doesn't even go over well in vanilla settings! Yes, I did say that when some woman caught your eye, my ribbon would remind you of who you belonged to, but well, that last part seems to have been completely forgotten in your report.

Predictably, this boy has a wandering eye, and has shown me in other ways that he isn't loyal enough to be considered for formal training with me.

- Ask me in our first real chat what panties I am wearing. I am not your porn, and if I want you to know, I'll tell you.

- Plan to come serve me in-person when you haven't even successfully completed an assignment in my service. Doubly so when you are already in a committed relationship, and know that I only seek unattached boys for my in-person service. Once again, this is an obvious sign that you were more focused on your fantasy than on my needs as a Real Woman.

ed cantor's First Ribbon Reports & TrainingSt. Patrick's Day 2010

I know that many of you wonder what to put into a report, and what training with me is like... especially when I'm in "tease and denial" mode. Below are my boy, ed cantor's, first ribbon reports to me, along with some of the relevant emails back and forth between us that day.

One of the nicest things is that he let me know early that he was in fact wearing my ribbon so that I could really get into enjoying the thought of him secretly be-ribboned for me as I went about my day. That, and his naughtiness and writing skill, along with jezi and others wearing ribbons as well, made for one of my hottest St. Patrick's Days yet!


The Shopping Report
2010-03-16

Mistress Magick,

I was able to find the ribbon -- basic satin ribbon -- at the sewing section of the Walmart, as you suggested. It is 3/8" wide, and I purchased two lengths of 1m each, just to be sure I had enough or [if I] made a mistake. They didn't have any patterned ribbon, so I got a bright and festive green. The closest match i could find was something called Kiwi Green.

The woman helping me, a delightful middle-aged woman who seemed to come from Italian village of 100 years ago, was very sweet and helpful, and even commented that it was just in time for St. Patrick’s Day. She asked me if I was going to trim out a hat or something. I just kind of blushed, and said yes, something like that....

thanks again, Mistress Magick

yours,

edward

[This is a good shopping report, with plenty of detail, but not too long. I love the description of the woman waiting on him and the details of their conversation.]


My Feedback
Very good. And I'm glad that you enjoyed the shopping trip. I am betting that the Walmart wasn't as disorienting as a fabric shop/craft store would have been.

With two lengths, you should try using both to make it double thick, thereby also adding more loops to the bow.

I have to admit that I'm tempted to tell you about [name removed]'s shopping trip, but I probably shouldn't. I will say that he actually purchased two ribbons because he couldn't decide between them... and he made use of both of them. (I let him do his assignment early, so I already have his full report.) I do love it when you guys go "above & beyond" to make sure that you're covered rather chance falling short. :-) It's a very good sign.

I will expect to see something ticked off my wishlist as well. I could really use an Amazon gift certificate and it would still arrive on time... although I have to admit I keep thinking of the silk scarf from Jen Delyth.

M.

[I've noticed that if the better boys can't decide, they buy both and offer me a selection. It's always better to be overprepared than not have what you need.

One thing NOT to do: email me a 5am my time from the fabric shop while you are trying to decide between narrow and wide ribbon. If I cared, I would specified the width in the assignment. I do expect you boys to use some common sense, and to be able to decide certain things on your own.]


His Response
thank you so much, yet again, Mistress Magick. It will be a joy and a constant pleasure and tease, I am sure, to do this for you. All the more so since I am still in my now self-enforced chastity[...] I know this ribbon will tease me and keep me tingling and hard for a very pleasurable day.

yours,

edward


And Mine
And I'm looking forward to a juicy report that will make me warm in return... knowing how it teased you and that you still behaved yourself.


Comfirmatiom That He is Wearing the Ribbon
2010-03-17

Already the experience is making for a wonderful day.. it is a lovely weather here today, but i know that is not the reason i am tingling... you and your ribbon are, Mistress Magick... I will send you a full report, after the day is done, but I also wanted to give you the early update as to my teased self.

thank you again, Mistress Magick. my irish eyes are smilin'


Knowing that He was Already Squirming, I Decided to Tease Him a Bit
As are mine.

Imagine me reaching down to inspect the ribbon: checking to make sure that the bow is tight, but that the loop isn't too much so...sliding a finger between the loop and your cock to test it...lifting the ends of the bow to pull it snug... enjoying your reaction as I brush the ribbon against you, taking my time and drawing it out, brushing against you again and again, teasing...


And His Response
I can imagine it all too well, Mistress Magick... being told to present myself to you, my hands perhaps behind my back after lowering my trousers for you... myself all bound in ribbon, presented to you for your inspection. Your subtle touch, testing and prodding, adjusting and tightening, making me tingle, making me stiffen in reaction... making the ribbon even tighter as a result. You smile and my tingle and trembling, before packing me back up, to feel this more, to serve more.

yours in ribbon,

Edward


And Mine
Continuing to tease before packing you away... Looking in your eyes...watching it on your face...hearing it in your breath... My own intense expression highlighted by an evil grin...

Warm... Wet...

M


I was enjoying his emails so much that I asked him to chat with me over lunch. When he heard my delight at the fact that jezi was wearing her ribbon without underwesr, he decided to follow suit.

i've removed my boxers, Mistress, so i now wear only the ribbon around my cock, or should i say yours?, and it there is nothing else between my and pants. it is, of course, only making more tingly, more aware of myself, more likely to have my erection grow and throb, more and more wanting to just be begging to be unwrapped like a st. patrick's day present you could open personally.

yours,

Edward


We discussed chatting more after work however he couldn't escape going out with friends to celebrate, which lead to a new line of teasing

Visions of you using the urinal in the bar... still be-ribboned.

M


Being the Imaginative Boy That He Is, He decided to run with it... although perhaps a bit too far

I can see the picture in my mind.

The perfect end to this St. Patrick's day would be to meet you at busy pub. You would know that I was wrapped in a bow and I would know. I would feel its grip, only tighter thanks to the inspiration of being near you.

We'd take a seat. You would have me keep my hands on the table or holding my pint, while yours tormented me, sliding over the obvious bulge. You'd have me throbbing and aching, my balls blue and needy in their green wrapping. Without boxers, I know there would even be a risk of my precum soaking a spot in my trousers.

The drink would be delicious, but it would also be another tease, as i would know you were just making me wait, making me wait for the real ordeal that would be just beginning when you took me out of there.


Of Course, I Made a Few Corrections
In some dark corner, perhaps even sneaking a peek of the top of the bow

...oh, but I think it would be dinner, far away from the cheap, green beer, and you would slowly feed me dessert.


Since he was out late, I didn't hear from him again until I received his report the next day.


Final St. Patrick’s Day Report
Written 2010-03-18

I awoke early, before my alarm – no doubt my body was as eager as I to start. I trimmed myself, making sure that I was presentable, then took a steamy shower, making sure I was crisp and clean.

Out of the shower and dry, I began to wrap myself up. With the extra length, I was able to wrap around myself a couple times, with plenty of ribbon for a large bow and for dangling ends. I placed the middle of the ribbon under my balls, drawing the ends up and around me, over my cock then back down again. Then I looped around again to encircle my shaft alone, then back around to get all of me again. I closed it all off with a largish bow, then trimmed the remaining ends as you had instructed.

I dressed and went out to work. Of course I could feel the ribbon and its slight grip at every movement. It was like a tickle sometimes and a hug others. The increased thought of myself within it, especially for someone else, made me tingle. I was probably at least half erect all day long.

Talking to you via twitter and email and chat (wonderful!!) was intense and only inspired my imagination more, making me throb. There were times, thinking of you, that I would sneak my hand down and grind against myself, reveling in the desire and lust and want. [This assignment allowed him to touch, but not to cum.] Of course, fantasizing about being presented to you for an unwrapping was even more wonderful.

After our chat, as I mentioned, I went and removed my boxers, tucking them away. I felt even more sensitized, feeling myself freer, but also sliding against the fabric of my pants, feeling even more exposed. Yes, I was even harder, for longer stretches at a time. I had to really concentrate to try and think about ANYTHING else.

And of course, when what I might have wanted was just to get home and get privacy, there was no avoiding pints. We had a great time, actually. We drank and laughed and drank and told stories. There was one or two women with us, and they were getting happy and silly too. They were laughing and flirting and enjoying themselves, and nothing is as sexy as a happy, smiling woman. It was making the ribbon tighter… LOL. [Yes, he mentioned other women, but in a positive non-specific way, that could be equally applicable to me. Besides. it's true! :-)]

Yes, there were at least two occasions that I had to relieve myself, and had to be quite careful, especially on a busy night, to try to avoid showing just how much I was celebrating the day! [Referencing my enjoyment at the thought of him doing this... having to either using the stalls or risk getting caught.]

It was a wonderful day, Mistress, feeling your ribbon hold me all day long. I felt like I was in your embrace and control, and it was such a pleasure and gift.

I made sure that the ribbon was not too tight, and I slept last night wearing it and nothing else. That way, I woke with the memories and a wide smile to go along with a raging reminder of my lusts and desires.

Thank you Mistress

Yours,

edward