4th of July with azpanties: Training My #1 Boy on Cam

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World Cup Chastity Game - The Finals (Part Two)

UPDATE: Germany won the World Cup in extra time: 

  Germany 1 - Argentina 0 

Argentina Players:

- Buy and wear a Black Ribbon (or one with the colors of the German flag (black, red and gold)) for at least 10 hours. 

If you're wearing your Bastille Day ribbon(s) for Me on Monday, I think it would be sexy for you to buy your Black Ribbon while you're ribboned for the holiday. ;-) Then wear your Black Ribbon on Tuesday or Wednesday.

- Only 1 Edge, which MUST be while you are wearing your ribbon.

- Chaste for another 24 hours after the end of the game - let's just say until 11pm London (BST) / 6pm NYC (EDT) / 3pm San Francisco (PDT) on Monday. 

I wish I'd said that the additional chastity time would start after you completed wearing your ribbon and performing your edge, but I was expecting that the game might go into PKs - and wind up totaling 9 days more of chastity! See - I do think about you poor, horny boys! ;-)

Germany Players: sophie was the only one of my remaining players who selected Germany. She will be getting a Special Reward designed for her from the ideas that she sent me before the Knock Out Rounds began. Watch InHerService.com for her report. Yes, I know what it is, but I want to make sure she didn't get ahead of herself when she suggested it. ;-)

(Read the entire post for full instructions.)

Sadly Brazil just lost to the Netherlands. I'm happy for my Dutch players, but I'm mostly thinking: "At least it wasn't as bad as Germany". The referee made a couple of really bad/weird decisions, but going both ways and nothing that should have decided the game.

Highlights from ESPN (Can you watch these in the UK?):  http://www.espnfc.com/fifa-world-cup/4/video/1947343

Netherlands Players (azpanties, sophie and jezi): You didn't win it all, but you did win today, and your team is going home with their heads held high and hopes for next time. Enjoy one hands-free release, and lick up as much as you can! You have until 6pm NYC/11pm London time on Monday to claim your release!

You know The Rules by now: You are NOT allowed to use your hands. You may rub against something, stick it into an object that you're NOT holding, etc. Anal is NOT allowed. After you cum, you must lick up as much of the cum as you can manage!

Brazil Players (marc (submissive_geek)): You got spanked AGAIN, and are going to be feeling the pain for a long time. Take 200 self-administered spanks using the implement of your choice - 100 on each side! 

If your spanks are not taken and reported promptly, add 50 spanks per day interest for each additional day after 6pm NYC/11pm London time on Sunday.

Whether you lost or won, in My game, everyone gets another chance for glory - or humiliation - tomorrow during The Final!

(Images captured from Google. Start time shown in New York City/Boston/My time.)

The Reward and Punishment that I have decided for the Final:

1st Place: You get a personalized Special Reward, selected/designed from your ideas by Me, and supervised by Me. You are required to submit evidence of your task, which I will likely share on Twitter and/or my blogs.

2nd Place: You will be required to buy a ribbon* (selected to honor the victor) and wear it as a cock ring, wrapped around your entire package, for at least 10 hours, during which time you will edge x times, where x = the total number of goals scored! 

And you have to wait until at least y days after the game to cum, where y = the number of goals scored against you!  

  Ex: Argentina loses 3-2 against Germany: 

       you wear a black ribbon and edge 5 times while wearing it

       and are not allowed to cum until at least (3 goals x 24 hours)

       72 hours after the end of the game!

I'll confirm the ribbon color(s) after the game tomorrow. I know that all my players know where they can buy them! ;-) 

Your punishment isn't finished until both the ribbon-wearing and edging are done, and your chastity time is over. You are required to submit evidence of your task, which I will likely share on Twitter and/or my blogs.

Remember, this is the FINAL, so play will INTENSE, 

and therefore so should be your Reward or Punishment! ;-)

* Yes, the ribbon wearing is inspired by my 4th of July/Bastille Day and St. Patrick's Day Assignments. Some of you are already slated to wear your red, white & blue ribbon on Monday for Bastille Day. If that's the case and your team loses, we'll discuss when you should wear which ribbon.

Players (FINAL)

azpanties: Argentina
sophie: Germany
marc (submissive_geek): Argentina
jezi: Argentina

Read all My World Cup Chastity Game Rules and Updates:
http://www.male-service.com/search/label/WorldCup

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NOTE: While this game is free, and one that I am really enjoying playing with my own subs, publishing the updates for the rest of you takes a lot of work. Gifts of thanks are much appreciated, and will encourage me to run more games like this in the future.
A tip of $5 or $10 is fine for this.
Amazon.com (very private and works best internationally) or GiftRocket.com (USA only) Gift Certificates are preferred.
If you're in the States, and want to send a small gift ($10 - $25), I also need a Digital Redbox Card: http://www.redbox.com/gifts.
It's a great way to treat me to a movie!

Use the name:     M. Magick
Email to:             ForMistressMagick at yahoo.com

World Cup Chastity Game - The Finals

 Actual start times (not ESPN pre-game times), shown in New York City/Boston/My time.

(Captured from Google. They've also had some GREAT Doodles for the Games.)

We're there, and I said I'd do something special for the Final! ;-) Actually, I think it would be fun for everyone to have something riding on each of the last two games, so...

My Continuing Players have to keep their previously selected teams (underlined), but also choose a team (in bold) for each game that they aren't in.  

Continuing Players (updated July 12)
azpanties: Netherlands and Argentina
sophie: Netherlands and Germany
marc (submissive_geek): Brazil and Argentina
jezi: Belgium Netherlands and Argentina

I find "The More, The Merrier!" so I'm also opening the game back up to New and Returning Players, but they won't have the privilege of a Special Request. Only the players who have been in this from the beginning have earned that.

NEW and Returning Players should choose a team in each of the final games by midnight their time on Friday night:
1) Brazil or the Netherlands?
2) Argentina or Germany?
And, of course, you must be chaste from the moment you read this post, regardless of how much time you spend choosing your teams. ;-)

The Rewards & Punishments
1st Place: Special Reward for Continuing Players / Regular Release and Eat It All for New Players
4th Place: LOTS of Spanks - I'll decide how many afterward, based on the game!

But I haven't decided which of these goes to 2nd Place & which to 3rd:
- Hands-Free Release & Lick It Up
- LOTS of Edges - I'll decide how many afterward, based on the game!
- Wear the ribbons in the victor's colors around your cock for 24 hours (can be split into multiple days)
- Something else? ;-)

What do you think? E-mail me, tweet @Mistress_Magick or comment below. I'll decide before the game on July 12th. It is your responsibility to watch this blog & My Twitter for updates.

Read all My World Cup Chastity Game Rules and Updates:
http://www.male-service.com/search/label/WorldCup

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NOTE: While this game is free, and one that I am really enjoying playing with my own subs, publishing the updates for the rest of you takes a lot of work. Gifts of thanks are much appreciated, and will encourage me to run more games like this in the future.
A tip of $5 or $10 is fine for this.
Amazon.com (very private & works best internationally) or GiftRocket.com (USA only) Gift Certificates are preferred.
If you're in the States, and want to send a small gift ($10 - $25), I also need a Digital Redbox Card: http://www.redbox.com/gifts. It's a great way to treat me to a movie!

Use the name:     M. Magick
Email to:             ForMistressMagick at yahoo.com

World Cup Chastity Game Rules - 2nd Stage The Knock Out Rounds

 Actual start times (not ESPN pre-game times), shown in New York City/Boston/My time.

(Captured from Google. They've also had some GREAT Doodles for the Games.)

Remaining Players (updated July 1)
azpanties: Argentina (switched from USA)
sophie: Netherlands (switched from England)
jezi: Belgium (switched from England)
marc (submissive_geek): Argentina (switched from England)
scott: Germany (switched from England) Red Card for attitude!
danielle: USA; Backup: England Knocked out

I am removing players who haven't checked in. As with any game, some players simply just don't make the cut! If you believe there has been a mistake, you may appeal via email within 48 hours.

Okay, boys and gurls, things are going to get intense!

Chastity:
Except as specified below and on my Twitter, you are to remain chaste, as previously directed, until after the Final Game.
    Yes, this means that once both your teams are out, you may have NO CHANCE TO CUM, until the Final Game*. THIS is why you were encouraged to choose a good Backup team!
   
 
When your team plays:

Win - You held them back and kept driving at the goal, hanging in there until the game was won!

First, edge once for every goal your team scored, including any penalty kicks! Do NOT pause more than a minute between edges.

Then, you may cum (once), catching and licking up every drop!
(If you prefer to cum by rubbing against something, you may do so, but you must still lick up as much as possible.)

If you lose it and cum early, you must finish all your remaining edges as soon as you are able to get hard again.

If your edges and release are not completed and reported within 48 hours after the end of the game, they are forfeited.

[NOTE: If I have allowed you to cum with your partner within the last 96 hours, you will count that as your release. You must still perform the edges WITHOUT cumming.]

       
Red Card/Ejection - You've been a Very Naughty Boy, and need to be punished!
 
If a player on your team gets a Red Card during the game, you must spank yourself 100 times - as soon as possible after it happens!

You have 24 hours after the game ends to complete and report your spanks. Add an additional 50 spanks per day Interest for each day you are late, even if you are only a few minutes late.
    25 hours after the game ends = 150 spanks, etc.


Lose - You kept trying, but they just kept beating you back!

You must edge for each goal you scored.
AND you must spank 50 times (25 on each cheek) for every goal you gave up!

Beginning with an edge, alternate until you are done. As the number could get quite high, I will allow you flexibility regarding how to space out the spanks.
    Ex: You lost 2-4 = 2 Edges & 200 spanks
      Edge -> 50 Spanks -> Edge -> 150 spanks *or*
      Edge -> 100 Spanks -> Edge -> 100 spanks *or*
      Edge -> 150 Spanks -> Edge -> 50 spanks

You have 24 hours after the game ends to complete and report your edges and spanks. Add an additional 50 spanks per day Interest for each day you are late, even if you are only a few minutes late.
    25 hours after the game ends = 150 spanks, etc.

You can switch to your Backup (if they are still in the game) with your Backup's NEXT game.
          Ex: If USA loses to Belgium on 7/1, azp can switch to Argentina on 7/5 (and bring down some revenge on Belgium!) ;-) However, danielle will be done until the final as England is already out.


Once You're Teams Are Completely Out:
* I will have a Special Competition for the Final Round, and may have some earlier ones if everyone is already out! Watch My Twitter for details!
These will be your only additional chances to cum until this game is over (July 14th - Bastille Day).


If You Win It All:
Each of the players advancing have been asked to email me with a list of special Rewards they are interested in receiving if their team wins The Cup.

Ideas submitted include:

- Buy panties and a bra, and wear them all the next day. While wearing them write 100 lines in the library (or similar), where ladies could see.

-  Buy womens' clothes for a specific uniform, such as a secretary or a school girl. Tell the sales girls I lost a bet with some female friends and ask if they could help me choose. Perhaps Mistress could write a letter as though I'd lost the bet with her and include ideas of the kind of things she wants me to wear, so I can hand it to the girls and it looks like I have been sent.

- Buy and wear panties and/or pantyhose for the day.
- Wear a ribbon around cock in team colors.
- Tweet a thank you to the team with a pic of one of the above.

-  Masturbate with dildos in my mouth and ass.
-  Masturbate with nipple clamps and pull off during orgasm.

If you haven't emailed me, please do so as soon as possible.
Submitting your ideas are required as part of your request to be allowed your release for advancing from the Group Play to the Knock Out Rounds, and it is NOT my responsibility to remind you.

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Read all My World Cup Chastity Game Rules and Updates: 
http://www.male-service.com/search/label/WorldCup

2014 World Cup Chastity Game

UPDATE: Registration for my 2014 World Cup Chastity Game is now CLOSED. I am NOT accepting any more players. Check in with me when the Ladies play in Canada next year.  :-)

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I'm thinking about having a little game based on this year's World Cup. It will definitely involve chastity, but may also involve edging, spanking, cum consumption (when you are allowed to cum), etc.

If you're interested in playing, email me at:

ForMistressMagick (at) yahoo.com

EDIT: Specify your Country*, Backup Country if you are choosing one, Age and Relationship Status. Include a list of the dates and opponents that your countries have left to play in their Group.

 *For this game, just like the World Cup itself, your team is determined by your citizenship. If you have dual/multiple citizenship, you must choose before you begin playing and stick with your decision.

I also think it would be fun for participants to have lucky panties/patriotic apparel to wear when their team plays, and would love to see some pics.

Speaking of which, My sophie found this sexy England Flag Bikini to wear for game days, even if just in fantasy.

While trying to find the link, I came across this two piece (above right) that combines the Union Jack and Stars and Stripes. Ironically, it's from Paris Coming. (Maybe that explains the confused combination of the two flags!) I think it's the perfect everyday combination for My British sissies!

"Blue Balls are the New Black: Edging 101"

I'm honored to have been interviewed for, and quoted in, this great new article on Edging by Hannah Miet (@hannahmiet):

      http://www.vocativ.com/08-2013/blue-balls-are-the-new-black-edging-101/

Here are a couple of quick links for the readers who found their way here from vocativ.com:
Welcome!

- My Male-Service.com Blog Posts on Edging (including the Rules for a couple of Edging Games):
      http://www.male-service.com/search/label/edging

- InHerService.com Written Assignment Reports from some of my boys and gurls referring to Edging:
      http://www.inherservice.com/search/label/edging

A lot of the assignments also include crossdressing, written punishments and other kink. Scroll down on the page for some of the reports from the more intense Edging Games.

- The published version of my Beltane Assignment specifically includes Edging, along with Penis Decoration, which is why it is referenced in certain posts. Here are some of the assignment reports:
    http://www.inherservice.com/search/label/Beltane

I am very happy that she choose to quote my beliefs and philosophy behind Cock Control and my use of Edging instead of just focusing on the kinky stuff. For your reading pleasure, here is more of what I sent her in the email interview:

Q: In your perspective, what is the ultimate goal of edging?

A:  There are several different possible goals for edging, but ultimately I think they all come down to better utilizing sexual energy and heightening sensual and sexual pleasure. 

Edging is a way of training a man find his own "point of no return" (which is actually more like a cliff) and then learn to ride, or at least repeated get close to, the edge of it without going over. In doing so, he gains more control over his own body, and becomes a better lover, both for himself and for his partner(s). Edging while masturbating alone can help him focus on learning to listen to his body's messages telling him when he is getting close and needs to slow down without all the other input of being with another person. Then it can be translated into his lovemaking with a partner. In addition, it steps up his own masturbation sessions from a mundane routine to a deeply intense experience, simply by taking the time to really experience his own reactions and really feel them, edging several times, with or without a release.

I  have studied Tantric, Taoist and Magickal sexual beliefs and practices, and agree that a man usually loses energy (basically chi) when he comes. As a dominant woman, I also believe that a man's penis and his orgasm are ultimately for the pleasure of his partner, and they should be devoted to her (or him) whenever possible, whether physically, energetically or both. Too many men get into the routine habit of a few yanks and they are done. Likewise, they do this without any meaning or value. They waste tons of energy that could be put into deepening their own sexual experiences, pleasuring their partner(s), building a deeper relationship, helping around the house or even doing better in their careers. Edging builds this energy before releasing it, deepening the sexual experience and/or allowing it to be better channeled toward their partner or themselves. 

When I am playing with any long distance boy, I start training him to ingest his own cum, which is a way of reabsorbing the physical aspect of this energy rather than wasting it. Likewise, I have boys learn to thank me for their orgasms, and those who become mine may even say a special mantra devoting themselves to me as they masturbate, thereby sending me their unused energy, and building our connection. A lot of men don't realize that when they fantasize about someone or something when they cum, that that is where they are sending their energy. I do feel that energy does need to be allowed to flow and that orgasms are important for physical, mental and spiritual health, however, I believe in valuing them by waiting until a time when you can intentionally share or devote them with meaning to someone or something that is important to you. Therefore, I believe in short term chastity of days or weeks, but not long term chastity of many months or years. Edging is a way of building the energy, rather than letting it stagnate, until the right time.

Q: Can you tell me a little bit about #chastitystatus?

A: #ChastityStatus is a Twitter hashtag for males to use in reporting how many days they have gone without having an orgasm. Whether they touch or not, edge or not, have other sexual experiences or not, is up to them or their owner/partner/lover/Mistress/Master. They do not have to be locked in a chastity device, but many of those who tweet do wear devices. It is a method of support for those who are trying to save their sexual energy until an appropriate time for release, and it is a way for the male and/or his owner/partner/ lover/Mistress/Master to easily track his status.  Day 0 is the day that the orgasm occurs. Day 1 is the next day, and so on. 

Q: Can you explain how you use edging with "online only" boys and girls?

A: I use edging to teach my boys control, to heighten their own sexual experiences, as well as my own, and to exert my long-distance control over them. As a Domme, I love doing something and watching, hearing or reading about the reaction that I have caused. Knowing that I make a man hard shows my effect on him, knowing that he is yearning to touch but isn't because of he is not allowed shows my control, and having him stop so close, without doing the one thing every impulse in his body wants to do, shows the depth of it. Contrary to what some might imagine based on cultural pre-conceptions, I am a sensualist, not a sadist, and the edges that I like to push are with intensity and control, not pain. 

(Everyone that I play with is genetically male, primarily because I myself am straight. I do love the contrast of dressing up a hard man in softly, feminine lingerie, and delight in pantyboys. With my CD/TV/TS sisters, the closer they are to transformation, the more the play becomes less sexual and more about pretty clothes, makeup and cuddling. Often the gurls don't edge, unless it is by rubbing through panties or against pillows, because taking a cock in hand is such a masculine experience.)  

I practice something that I call Cock Control with my boys and gurls. This means not only controlling whether, when and how they can engage in any gratuitous touching (including when and how many times/for how long they are allowed to edge), and when they can cum, but also having them wear cock rings, chastity devices and/or panties for my pleasure, whether it be in the visual presentation or in the shared secret that they are wearing them for me. 

Californication: "It's a Cock Cage"

In Season 6, Episode 5 of Californication, Marcy puts Stu in a cock cage to punish him for cheating on her.

This looks like the CB-6000 Designer Line Chrome Edition*:
 (UK Link)

Direct YouTube Link: http://youtu.be/xojo-6K6M3A 

Next, she heads out to dinner with her girlfriend, leaving him locked. But first, she puts some girl-on-girl porn on the TV and gives him a LONG, HARD kiss goodbye. ;-)

* Knowing how well hung Stu is supposed to be, I'm surprised that she didn't put him in a Curve!

My Beltane (May Day) Assignment is Available & Will be FREE on Wednesday!

My Beltane (May Day) assignment is now available for download from Amazon and should be available for FREE tomorrow (Wednesday).

Even though we've reviewed the proof version, Free Download Day is also Beta Test Day as it displays differently on different devices. So let me know (ForMistressMagick *at* Yahoo *dot* com) if you find any issues.

I'm looking forward to having your poles "ringed" for me on May 1st! ;-)

Green Ribbons Galore & A Note from your Favorite Mistress

Thanks to everyone who has downloaded my St. Patrick's Day assignment!

While my publisher was working on the design, we purchased an assortment of appropriate ribbons to use in potential photos. I'm sure all you boys can just imagine us shopping together, talking and laughing about which widths and textures of ribbons would be best for wrapping up your packages!

We found the ones pictured below at my local Michael's. There was one small display of St. Patrick's Day merchandise on the far left as we went into the store, and one small box of ribbons on it. That's where we found all the shamrock and "St. Patrick's Day" ribbons. I also selected the plain green ribbons that I liked best from near and among the bridal ribbons. (If they only knew!) There were all available on the spool, so we didn't have to ask to have anything measured or cut.   

If anyone is looking for a ribbon, and you have been to at least two stores without success, I will allow the following:

Send me a tribute of at least $25 via Amazon Payments (US only) or $35 via Amazon.com Emailed Gift Card (US, Canada & Europe) before March 10th to: ForMistressMagick *at* yahoo *dot* com, and receive a free yard of your choice from the ribbons listed below. I'll include a handwritten note and my publisher will ship it via Priority Mail so that you will receive it on time. If you're elsewhere, email me first with your location for more info.

These are, in order:

1. Small white shamrocks on green satin ribbon
2. Green satin ribbon
3. Green shamrocks on white background grosgrain ribbon
4. Green satin picot ribbon (with the cute little loops along the edges)
5. White shamrocks on green background grosgrain ribbon
6. "Happy St. Patrick's Day!" ribbon

Make sure to include your name, email address, shipping address and both the number and name of the ribbon you would like. If you'd prefer that I select one for you, just say so! ;-)

My St. Patrick's Day Assignment is FREE Today!

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St. Patrick's Day Assignment Available -FREE Download Tomorrow Only!

My St. Patrick's Assignment is now available on Amazon.

To celebrate it's publication, it will available for FREE download tomorrow (February 28)!

Edging Escalators

I know that some of you have been watching @mykinkyother (mKo) doing an edging escalator for me on Twitter. Like many things these days, it all began with a simple tweet:

It has been my experience that when a boy asks about a kink, he's usually had it in the back of his mind for some time, rolling around the idea of what it might be like to try it. So when when mKo asked about an edging escalator...well... *evil grin*

I've actually done "edging escalators" before, but I don't remember hearing them called that. I'm definitely keeping the name as it's the perfect description of what they do: escalate!

However, when I've done them in the past, I've used formulas in order to keep them from getting too far out of hand too fast, and ranges in order to allow for busy days. While I've used more complicated versions (especially for longterm chastity), a simple example might be:

Minimum Edges Today  = w
Maximum Edges Today = d/w, always rounded up

Where d = your #ChastityStatus day number.
The day that you cum is Day #0, the next day is Day #1, etc.

And w = the week of chastity that you are in.
Days #1 - #7 would be Week (w) = 1. Days #8 - #14 = Week (w) = 2, etc.

Therefore:
On Day #7, the minimum edges would equal 1 and the maximum edges would equal 7.
On Day #8, the minimum edges would equal 2 and the maximum edges would equal 4.
On Day #15, the minimum edges would equal 3 and the maximum edges would equal 5.
On Day #20, the minimum edges would equal 3 and the maximum edges would equal 7.

I've switched azpanties to the simple fomula above. However, I've decided that since mKo suggested Day #1 = 1, Day #2 = 2, etc. perhaps he needs to proceed with that version for awhile longer in order to experience the full ramifcations of the idea. ;-) I've also asked them both to use my #MMDay tag to tweet their edges whenever possible to make their progress easier to follow.

My Other Twitter Hash Tags: #DailyPanties & #ChastityStatus

Quite a few of you know that I'm @Mistress_Magick on Twitter, but did you know that I've created a couple hash tags for training my boys and gurls, which I'm now encouraging others to use as well?


#DailyPanties - Use this tag to tweet a description and/or pic of the panties that you are wearing today. You don't have to wear panties everyday (unless I'm training you to do so) - just join when you can. The more, the merrier!
(Genetic males only, please. Sometimes we get trolling "escorts"!)


#ChastityStatus - How many days since your last release? If you are in chastity, with or without a device, you are welcome to join in. It also doesn't matter if you are under a Domme's or partners control, or not.

To make it simple, Day 0 is the day that you last came. Ruined orgasms count (even though I don't support them), while edging doesn't count (and I *love* making my boys do it! ;-) ) Of course, all such touching is only under the orders of your Lady/Partner/Keyholder.


Don't have a Mistress?
Taking part in my #DailyPanties and/or #ChastityStatus is an easy and free way to start getting my attention.


Don't know what hash tags are, or how to use them, start here:
https://support.twitter.com/entries/49309-what-are-hashtags-symbols

And don't forget that your tweets have to be public to be picked up by the search engine and/or for anyone not following you to see them. That includes me!

My subs & trainees should also remember to mention me by including "@Mistress_Magick" in their tweets, but don't put that first (which makes it a direct reply) or others won't see it.

Disciplining Naughty Boys ~

I must admit: I love making boys endure the things that distract them and lead them into temptation while doing their written punishments.

I just wrote an assignment of a boy who likes to look at... leer at...  women in sexy boots. So, not only does he have to surround himself with his favorite pictures of women in boots while he writes his lines, he also has to describe what he finds sexy about them is a part of him lines. *evil laugh*

And, of course, he is NOT allowed to touch himself while enduring all this teasing & punishment!
Now, that's hawt! ;-)

Finally A Classy Clips Site!

I'm the sort of Goddess who believes that it can be sexy to leave *something* to the imagination.. to tease and tempt... to play with the mind as well as the body. And, as a FemDom, it is more and more important for me that I am affiliated with sites that show respect for the true power of women. So many clips sites look cheap and trashy, and are basically focused on amateur porn... with everything "all in your face". Even when you are finally allowed a release, I want you on your knees, dreaming of being of being at my feet or serving me in other ways, gasping "Thank you, Mistress", not flipping meaninglessly through picture after picture, each of which further devalues that power.

Therefore, I'm happy to say that I have finally found a fetish-focused clips website which is classy, rather than trashy, and which also allows we to offer .mp3s so that I can tease and tantalize you with my voice, as well as my mind.

From first glance, I was impressed by Clippette. When Lisa, one of the co-founders, emailed me information, it only confirmed my first impression that this is a site that is actually intended to be respectful, intelligent and classy: "Clippette doesn't look like traditional adult websites, because we wanted to create an elegant, sexy, easy-to-use environment that conveys respect for the people selling content with us, as well as our customers. We don't think there's anything dirty or nasty about sex and wanted the site to clearly communicate that."

I have several ideas for audio files focusing on sissy fantasies, and of erotic and/or feminization hypnosis that I'd like to offer, in addition to possibility making more recordings of me. ;-)

For now, I'll be offering foot, shoe and stocking pics, as well as the notorious audio file of me being pleasured, which I also use for edging and cock control training.

Check out my new store at:
                http://www.clippette.com/Store/MistressMagick

Updated #MMDay Edging Game Rules!

In addition to wearing the appropriate color panties if you are able, we are going to play an #MMDay Edging Game where you earn points for each edge:

+1 point for each edge.
Add +1 point for kneeling while you edge.
Add +2 points if you were wearing a cock ring during the edge.
Add +3 points if it was in a place or room that you've *never* masturbated before.
Add an additional +1 point if you went at least a 1/4 mile out of your way to get to the new place!

So edging on your knees is two points. On your knees in a cock ring is 4 points, etc.

Edging, standing in an empty conference room at work where you've never played with yourself before, is also 4 points.

Edging (+1), kneeling (+1), wearing a cock ring (+2), in a location which you've driven to (+1) simply because you've never masturbated there (+3) is all 8 points.

Tweet each edge, including what number edge it is (first, second, third), how many points it was worth and why. When I read the tweet, I should be able to do the math, and know exactly why you earned the points that you did. Also, include your total points earned up to that point and the #MMDay hash tag.


Example, assuming that you already had 3 points:
Second edge, dripping & pulsing in the laundry room (+3), wearing my lavender cock ring (+2). 6 points - Total points: 9 #MMDay

If you are offline when you edge, you can tweet them later, but you much tweet the description of each one separately, and include the #MMDay tag.

You must be up-to-date on your reports and tributes, and earn at least the specified number of points, and tweet them, in order to be considered for an edge.

#MMDay Edging Game!

In addition to wearing the appropriate color panties if you are able (purple or purple and black for May 19), we are going to play an #MMDay Edging Game where you earn points for each edge:

+1 point for each edge.
Add +1 point for kneeling while you edge.
Add +2 points if you were wearing a cock ring during the edge.
Add +3 points if it was in a place or room that you've *never* edged before!

So edging on your knees is two points. On your knees in a cock ring is 4 points, etc.

Edging standing in a washroom at work where you've never edged before is also 4 points. Edging, kneeling, wearing a cock ring, in an empty conference room where you've never edged is all 7 points.

Tweet each edge, including how many points it was worth and why. When I read the tweet, I should be able to do the math, and know exactly why you earned the points that you did. Also, include your total points earned up to that point and the #MMDay hash tag.


Example, assuming that you already had 3 points:  Edged again, dripping & pulsing in the laundry room (+3), wearing my lavender cock ring (+2). 6 points - Total points: 9 #MMDay

If you are offline when you edge, you can tweet them later, but you much tweet the description of each one separately, and include the #MMDay tag.

For May 19th, my boys, gurls and trainees MUST have at least 12 points, and be up to date on their reports and tributes to be considered for a release.

Yummy Tease Video, Especially for Leg Lovers

She definitely enjoying teasing him so that she can take it all out of her date. Very tastefully done. I approve! ;-)

Written Punishments, Cock Control and an Excellent Punishment & Infractions Report

The report below, published with permission, is a illustration of why certain boys ask me for written punishments. It is from a new punishee, not WP2, whose better reports I have been publishing in my InHerService blog.

The first boy who approached me for written punishments (neither of these two) asked to be made to write lines and submit fines for his disrespectful acts toward women, such as cutting them off in traffic, or leering at certain parts of their anatomy. (I now call these punishments "lines and fines" because that is exactly what they are.) He wanted me to role play as a judge, representing the Court of Women, and punishing him for his misdeeds toward the better half of the human race.

Around this time I asked my boy, ed cantor, if he could see me, a loving Domme, in the role of a firm and strict "Lady Disciplinarian", the title given to me by this boy, to which he responded with a lovely piece, called simply "Disciplinarian" which some of you may remember. It reminded me, with the warmest glow, that a firm hand sometimes shows more love than a permissive smile.

As I started giving this first boy his punishments, I found that the Superior Female/"Goddess archetype" in me was really enjoying handing them down. I asked him more about the culture of written punishments, and was directed to a Yahoo Group dedicated to them. I joined and am really enjoying being a part of the group. I have learned a lot there about new and different types of written punishments: essays, copying, etc., as well as ways to make writing lines more difficult.

I also now have a WP Assistant there, johnj, who helps me with researching new assignments and potential punishees/trainees. He is great at brainstorming, gives good feedback, and if I ask him to do something, I know that it WILL be done, and promptly so.

The group itself has more of a classroom/school days focus, with weekly homework essays, students being punished for acting up in class, etc. Like the boys that I am training off-list, I do generally prefer a more adult approach. I have found that the boys who come to me off-list usually do so for one of two reasons:

- They want to be punished for activities that are not suitable to be discussed on a PG-rated list. These included excessive masturbation, leering at women, porn addiction, causing women to go out of their way to bend over so they can get a better view, fingering a female friend's unworn panties, etc.

I'm starting to combine punishments for boys like these with cock control, requiring chastity while they do their punishment work, and only potentially allowing a release, as I dictate, once their work has been completed and accepted by me. Obviously, this is a strong motivator to finish their task. At the same time, it teaches them to better control their urges and to focus on respecting women rather than on using them for their own pleasure. It is my firm belief that a man's penis is for the pleasure of the woman (or women) in his life, and that he will gain the most pleasure from it when he learns to focus on her needs and desires instead of on his own selfishness.

- They want to be punished in ways that they can't be on the list.

The biggie is the desire to send me lines so that I can tear them up. After many years of refusing offers from boys who wanted to buy me a webcam (I didn't want one because I didn't want to cam), I finally gave in for one of these punishees. It has always been my feeling that going on cam in an intimate way is a sexual service and is often very slutty. (I also wish to protect my identity for work reasons.) Therefore, as a Domme, it has always been my policy that I do not cam, but I do enjoy watching boys cam for me as long as they are respectful, focused on me, follow orders, etc. In this case, I am videotaping only my hands as I tear up the lines or essay. Therefore, it is not live, and only shows exactly what I want it to show. The "careful exhibitionist" in me does enjoy that part, and I'm contemplating doing future videos of just my feet, etc. For now, I have a couple boys who are willing to airmail me their work from the UK just so that I can tear it up!

I can also have boys wear certain items (panties, male thong, cock ring, etc.) or do their writing in certain locations, in order to remind them of the reason for their punishment and/or make them feel more submissive while doing it. These additions are not allowed for on-list assignments, however they can add significantly to the experience. Reading some of WP2's reports shows just how much:
- http://www.inherservice.com/2010/09/written-punishments-in-library.html
- http://www.inherservice.com/2010/10/caught-writing-lines-while-wearing.html


I must admit that I am finding the written punishments combined with cock control to be a huge turn-on and they are often my favorite. I'm enjoying having trainees write for other reasons as well, such as improving their health, or recreating a memory or fantasy from another time, and I'm even starting to combine off and onlist training for some boys whose training is less sexual in nature. This is because we enjoy the exhibitionism of having them report the punishments on the list and/or because it adds an element to the possible punishment (being under the list rules adds the possibility of expulsion from the list) for list members whose tasks are not completed in a timely manner. I may write more about that later.

For now, I will leave you to read the report:

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Dear Mistress Magick,

Thank you for accepting my work, it makes me happy to know that the work was up to your high standards. As you noted, the scanner itself has seen better days, and does produce some spots.

I will remember your suggestion of a thank you paragraph if I'm required to write lines to you once again.

Thank you for granting me an orgasm, it was enjoyable to give myself release on your command. You requested that I think of and report on other offences:

In terms of other porn-viewing occasions, there are so many that it's difficult to know where to begin. I have been interested in porn and kinky porn for many years, and have spent quite a lot of time viewing it. I have nothing against the production or viewing of porn per se, though I find that the way porn is produced and consumed is quite symptomatic of the subjugation and objectification of women in society. However, I often have found myself spending many hours viewing porn, in search of the one picture that really does it for me and takes me over the edge. These are hours that I'm spending on my own pleasure, rather than doing more productive things for myself or for my Goddess. The submissive in me finds the waste of hours of time looking at porn to be unacceptable.

However, one common situation does stand out to me. My partner is an early riser and often goes to bed before me. I am a late bird, so I would often not go to bed with her, but rather stay up a bit later. Often I would feel horny and end up staying up very late, viewing porn and masturbating. And I would usually feel guilty afterwards...I should have been pleasuring and hugging my Goddess, but instead I've wasted my time objectifying other women and focusing my energy on them.

The other thing that I've felt deserves to be punished is my sometimes leering behaviour on the street. I smoke (yes, I do want to quit at some point, but not right at the moment. And when I do I think I want to keep quitting and my kink separate.) so when I'm at work I go outside the building and smoke. When I do so, I often find myself pacing around and turning my head in order to have a look at the buttocks of women who walk by on the sidewalk. Now, I think it's somewhat natural to look at an attractive person who walks by. But it's another thing to do so in an obvious way...and I think I cross that line sometimes. Especially when I'm feeling horny, I will leer at the bottoms of the women who walk by. I would like to change this behaviour, and I have to some extent, but there is also something quite natural and automatic about eyeing attractive people who walk by. I feel that some discipline might do me some good, though I also struggle to find a good strategy to avoid leering. Do I stare at the ground instead? There is just something so natural about watching the women walk by, I struggle to avoid it.


As to my feelings being punished, I found the experience quite powerful. I had to muster the courage to ask for a punishment on the list. Requesting punishment is a weird thing. I didn't think I'd really enjoy writing all those lines, so requesting something that will be less than pleasant is a weird thing. But I also kink on it. One thing is kinking on the punishment and having a sort of play 'offence' to justify it. But if it is something that I really feel bad about and want to change, then it somehow goes beyond just play somehow. Because a lot of kinky play is activity that I really like...but writing lines?? But I asked...and waited for a response.

I was quite excited when I got your response. I have found that anticipation can be very stimulating, guessing at what your punishment might be. I thought of doing the lines not because I wanted to, but because I wanted to improve myself and also obey a dominant woman. So that was a happy, nervous sort of anticipation. When I got the assignment, I was still quite turned on by the thought of the punishment. I savoured the opportunity to carry out your command.

Once I began writing the lines, I found it tedious, boring and painful. It was not really fun to spend all that time writing lines and having my hand hurt, even if I am a bit of a masochist. However, I knew why I was writing them and knew that I just needed to go ahead and finish. Wearing a thong while writing them also reminded me of my submission and my desire to be a good submissive slut. In my mind I thought that this punishment might help me to avoid the offensive behaviour, which made me hopeful at the same time. And I have to say I am proud that I now haven't viewed porn since the beginning of last weekend. Not really much time to be proud of, but it is nonetheless satisfying.

All that time, I didn't masturbate. With my lover not around and knowing I didn't have permission to orgasm, I found it was actually easier than I thought to abstain from playing with myself. When she is around, I think I find her presence arousing (as it should be!) and so chastity periods can be quite teasing and frustrating. But this one has been a bit easier, perhaps because I've started to exercise on a more regular basis in the last couple of weeks. I find that does alter the patterns of my libido.

When I finally finished all the lines, I was quite happy and pleased with myself. I scanned them and converted the files (I'm a techie IT person, but it still took me a couple hours to scan and convert!) and sent them off to you. Then began another period of anticipation. But we subs must learn that sometimes we have to wait. Would you accept them? Would I get an additional punishment? Would I be granted an orgasm. Submitting to your decisions in those matters is both slightly nerve-racking and also quite erotic.

I waited in anticipation of your email and instructions. When I received your email, I was joyed to hear that I could have an orgasm. This morning, I did my 15 minutes exercise, then kneeled in the bedroom and masturbated to thoughts of you, of submitting to your punishment, of my Lovely Goddess, and of how it is to have someone else controlling my cock. I came in the shot glass. Then I tipped it back and drank it. It went down pretty quick. I really dislike the taste of my cum, I just don't enjoy it. It was quite difficult to do, but I know what my orders were and carried them out. Drinking my own seed feels quite powerful, as it really is something that I would *not* follow through with if left to my own devices. But I did it, and it feels like a very submissive act. I also feel there is a sort of justice to it, since I am 'cleaning up my own mess' instead of leaving stains on bed sheets, underwear, etc. So it's powerful, but I'd definitely say I'm not used to the taste itself...I don't think I'll ever get used to that. Now the taste of a woman, on the other hand... :)

And so that's where I am now. It's after midnight, but I still feel like I can feel a bit of the salty protein-rich taste on my tongue. And another day has past in which I have not viewed porn. And now I wonder when my next orgasm might be...since I have agreed that that is not in my control right now.

Thank you for taking the time to punish me, and for controlling my cock. It is a sometimes contradictory and strange journey, but I find it quite captivating and exciting. I guess that's sexual submission.

Thank you for reading these rambling notes I have written.

Yours truly,
SeekingP

Steamy Vintage Silk Stockings Ad Starring Kim Basinger (circa 1992)

After seeing this commercial at Hot Sexy Fashion Pictures, I had to share it with all my foot, shoe and stocking fetishists.

And, honestly, the sheer tease of it will be good for all my boys & gurls!

Panty Hose Border Crossing - Video powered by Metacafe.com

via http://bit.ly/Silk-Stockings & http://aslipofagirl.blogspot.com/