Sissy Rumba Panties #MMDay

My darling jezi-girl has just gotten a pair of Coquette Frilly Rumba Boyshorts (pics at right & below. (US Link) to match sophie's as a belated birthday present. To celebrate, I'm calling a sissy Rumba Panties #MMDay for today, Thursday, November 7!

All sissies, pantyboys, etc. are invited to join in. Just put on your best ruffled, rumba panties and tweet a pic or description using the #DailyPanties and #MMDay tags. If you don't use Twitter, email me the name you want to use and your panty pics and/or description, and I'll tweet them later this evening.

If you don't have a pair of rumba panties, it's about time that you got some! You can take part in the #MMDay by shopping for and buying a pair, either online or in person. I'd love to read your shopping reports, and might even post one on my InHerService.com blog.

If you would prefer I choose your panties, email me links or pictures for to up to 4 of your favorites, along with a tribute, for my final selection and approval.

If you'd like to get a pair of these to match sophie & jezi, here are the links again:
US:
 http://t.co/LjO7jny8oP
UK, Europe & Australia:
 http://t.co/eBfXyoErAh

They also come in white, red and black, and are pre-approved by me in either pink or black!

What Style Panties are YOU Wearing?

I require that my pantyboys and sissies be able to differentiate between common styles of panties. This is important both so that they can submit their #DailyPanties training reports to me, and so that I can more easily select the panties that I want them to buy and/or to wear.

This great chart, found at Sharlene's Sissy Closet, should help:

Follow-up to: Panties as my Submissives' Uniform

 I thought some of you might enjoy seeing what my "uniform" panties look like on my jezi-girl, as well as how much of a sexy "vixen" she is! ;-) 

I expect to see these pics in her #DailyPanties tweets soon!

Panties as my Submissives' Uniform

In October, andrew gave me a gift card for Lane Bryant so that I could buy some lingerie from Cacique. I was ordering online to get the specific colors and sizes I needed, but having it shipped to the store for pickup to save on shipping. Like the frugal Domme that I can sometimes be, I was watching the sales in order to get the best deal, and I was also considering whether it was worthwhile to add a few more items to my order and pay a bit out of my own pocket so that I could use a coupon which would make the extra items almost free.

While I did look at several nice items for myself, I kept going back to panties that might make nice holiday presents for my boys & girls, including the ones to the upper right. The one thing that I wasn't sure about was the dangling double-diamond accent on the front. (I did see another style that I liked even better on clearance, but they sold out before I could get sizing information from andrew and sophie).

Just as I was getting ready to order without using the coupon, these went on clearance as well! I found myself wondering if jezi would mind if her panties matched andrew's, or if theirs matched sophie's and so on! I asked them, and found that they generally liked the idea of having matching "uniforms" of panties to wear for me, so I bought these for all my boys and girls who wear panties, even getting a couple extra pairs to allow for possible sizing issues.

When I went into the store to pick them up, I saw that they had the same panties there, except that theirs had a large round clear jewel on the front framed in silver. I absolutely *loved* the new design! And, of course, they were NOT on sale. Now it was obvious to me why the others had been on clearance - although I had not seen the new design advertised anywhere on their website. But... I wondered...

I opened my order right there at the store counter, digging past my own items to get the to extra panties at the bottom. And, YES! They were the new design! Color me one happy Domme!

As you can see from the picture above left, andrew loves his new panties, and jezi will soon be modeling hers as well [updated with a link to her pics] - which also include the sexy, rhinestone-adorned "vixen" holiday thong shown at right. Keep an eye out for them on Twitter in my #DailyPanties.

So, now that you know which panties I gave certain boys & girls this holiday, I'm wondering which of you will be wearing Holiday Panties for me this year. Email me at:
      ForMistressMagick *at* Yahoo *dot* com
and request my Yule Assignment to join in.

Cupping Your Balls & Reminding You of Me (Wearing Panties For Your Mistress)

From the script for one of my favorite movies, Bull Durham:
*

She pulls something from her handbag and hands it to Nuke. A pair of WOMEN'S RED PANTIES, with lace and frills.

ANNIE: I want you to wear these on the road trip when you pitch.

NUKE: What?

ANNIE: They'll fit snugly against your balls in such a wonderful way that you'll start seeing things differently -- plus they'll remind you of me which is better than thinking about those nasty hitters.

~  From: http://www.dailyscript.com/scripts/Bull+Durham.txt
(Apparently, in the original version, she gives him panties to wear, not a garter belt (as shown). I love both!)


I first started having boys wear panties, especially black lacey ones, because I love the way that they look - nicely decorating both the buns and bulge - covering the package while inviting me to touch and play. ;-)

But I've found that having a boy wear them when away from me adds another aspect - teasingly reminding him of my ownership and control. And, yes, whether nervous or excited, I love knowing that he's wearing them for me - our little secret.

andrew (who also sent me the quote above), put it so well in an email today that I just had to share it:

I'm excited to wear only feminine panties, it's been something like 6 or 7 weeks since I last wore my male underwear, and it's all been put away in a drawer; I haven't even seen a pair for well over a month.

It's a constant reminder, having to make a selection, report to you each morning, keep them laundered (I have fewer panties in rotation than I used to have male pants). They're more delicate and I can't just throw them in the washing machine with my jeans -- like I would have with my cotton boxer briefs -- so they take more looking after and of course that's a secondary responsibility and reminder, because there are almost always some panties hanging to dry. I'm not having to handwash them though, so I can be grateful for that.

For me, I enjoy the feel, all the styles feel different under my clothes, a constant reminder that I'm dressed differently. But of course, best of all is, I'm doing it for You [and nobody else knows]. It's one of the connections we have, Mistress.

It's made me wet just writing about it, I've just had to lick up some pre-cum.


Your boy

*
Photos:
Nuke in garters: http://www.pyleoflist.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/anuke1.jpg
Self-portrait in panties by My boy, andrew

My Favorite Panty Styles For My Pantyboys & Sissy Gurls

I saw this lovely pair of lacy black tanga panties on @pantiesfortoday's Twitter feed and had to share them. They are a perfect example of the panties that I love to have my pantyboys and sissy girls wear!

Cut
I love having "the package" covered, but to have a nice view of the butt cheeks, and easy access to my property. (I want to know that that your (my!) penis is there and to see your reactions, but not have everything "in my face"!)

Thongs are good for this, but they need to have some feminine elements such as lace or bow trims. Otherwise, they could just as easily be men's.

(NOTE: Every crossdresser should own a pair of basic black cotton women's bikinis or thongs, but save them for doctor visits!) 

I'm especially enjoying all the new trends in tangas and V-strings and love the way those pretty details on the back waistband really accent the rear view! Look at the lovely cherry red tangas at right. Once again, they cover the package, but show off everything else. The only thing that would make them better is having them in black!

Different cuts of panties look better on different boys and gurls... and let's face it, many can't carry off the tinier thongs. I also like bikinis in similar styles and all-lace boy shorts, as well as the flirty femme aspects of ruffled-back rumba panties.

Ultimately, the cut that looks best on the boy/gurl and best fits my mood is the one that I want to see.

That being said, I don't really like full-cut granny panties or the ultra-full bloomers marketed for sissies because they cover too much.

You also have to be careful with sheer, fuller-cut backs. While I have had boys wear sheer-backed panties for me, and have even purchased them for jezi, it is usually the front view and coverage that I really love most about them (at right). With sheer backs, I prefer them to be dark/black mesh or lace, making them more subtly sheer and much more sexy, mysterious and attractive.

I do have to note that I have recently encountered several sissies posting pics of themselves leaning over with their butt sticking out while wearing plain, light-covered, sheer-back, full-cut panties. These pics clearly showed their entire butt and gave a deep view of their butt crack. Not only are these panties NOT attractive, I consider this pose to be the same as "mooning" me and take it as an insult.

Posting pics poking your worse-than-bare butt out there, presumably for a spanking, is just as bad as any cock-shot, and just as much all about you. It is not about your Domme, what she wants or offering yourself to her.


Color
I'm sure that you have already noticed that black is my favorite color on my boys and gurls. I especially *love* the contrast of black lace against pale skin, and find that black as the perfect color when you want to be sexy and not trashy.

My own personal favorite color is purple, so it is also a favorite color for my boys and gurls, but I do consider it to be more personal to me, and it's a special color for those in my service or training. Likewise, well-designed rose prints and patterns are especially close to my heart.

Other colors that have special meaning include:

• Sissy Pink - Best when really femmed-up in a very girlie way.
• Bridal White - NEVER wear plain, boring cotton! Virginal white panties should always be delicately beautiful, preferably satin and/or lace with exquisite trims like something you would wear on your wedding night.
• Slutty Red - Unless it is for a holiday like Valentine's or Christmas, I usually consider red as in-your-face slutty!

I don't really like any shade of blue, aqua or turquoise (not even those used by schools that I have attended and places where I have worked!), and why would a crossdresser or sissy ever wear a boy-color anyway!!


Pics
I'm generally looking for a front view of your panties, with a nice bulge but not showing "everything". A hint of something through semi-sheer fabric, mesh or lace can create a nice intrigue, but try not to be too in-your-face about it.

A view of the back is a nice addition if there is any back-detailing. Like the pic of the rumba panties above, the best angle is often half way between being directly to the back and directly to the side so that it shows the curve of the cheek, but not an in-depth view of the crack! With tangas, v-backs, etc., you generally have to be more straight-on to really show off the back detailing, but then the crack is usually covered. :-)

My Other Twitter Hash Tags: #DailyPanties & #ChastityStatus

Quite a few of you know that I'm @Mistress_Magick on Twitter, but did you know that I've created a couple hash tags for training my boys and gurls, which I'm now encouraging others to use as well?


#DailyPanties - Use this tag to tweet a description and/or pic of the panties that you are wearing today. You don't have to wear panties everyday (unless I'm training you to do so) - just join when you can. The more, the merrier!
(Genetic males only, please. Sometimes we get trolling "escorts"!)


#ChastityStatus - How many days since your last release? If you are in chastity, with or without a device, you are welcome to join in. It also doesn't matter if you are under a Domme's or partners control, or not.

To make it simple, Day 0 is the day that you last came. Ruined orgasms count (even though I don't support them), while edging doesn't count (and I *love* making my boys do it! ;-) ) Of course, all such touching is only under the orders of your Lady/Partner/Keyholder.


Don't have a Mistress?
Taking part in my #DailyPanties and/or #ChastityStatus is an easy and free way to start getting my attention.


Don't know what hash tags are, or how to use them, start here:
https://support.twitter.com/entries/49309-what-are-hashtags-symbols

And don't forget that your tweets have to be public to be picked up by the search engine and/or for anyone not following you to see them. That includes me!

My subs & trainees should also remember to mention me by including "@Mistress_Magick" in their tweets, but don't put that first (which makes it a direct reply) or others won't see it.

Reflections: Shifting Focus ~

It's funny how different types of punishments wax and wane. Some months it seems like all my focus is on Edging or Panties, while others it might all be on Written Punishments. Part of it is that the more I am focused on any one area, the more it feeds other punishments in that area... both because the report posts and tweets attract new boys, and because the more I give assignments in an area, the more new naughty and interesting ideas I come with! What I do with boy A gives me ideas of what to do with boy B, and they both feed my play with sissy C, which gives me a great new idea for A, and so on.

But with my online-only boys and clients, my current focus also varies depending on *their* work, family obligations, etc. It makes sense that certain Holiday Assignments are more popular than others, but even those vary. For instance, a "ribbon assignment" usually has guaranteed popularity. Last year's 4th of July was amazing, with a couple boys queued up early and a couple more running out to buy ribbons on the 4th itself so that they could join in. It is so perfect when an assignment hits a critical mass like that! I was busy with email and tweets, turned on by all the boys in ribbons and their yummy reports, and loving every minute of it!  By contrast, almost everyone was busy this year, and I had very little participation. Sometimes I am just focused on other things and not pushing the holidays as much, but I don't think that has the case with the 4th.

A couple months ago, even my WP regulars were taking a break, but I was completely caught up in Edging Games with my Twitter boys & gurls. Whereas now, I have half a dozen boys & gurls doing Written Punishments... but since my jezi, mKo and others have been busy with work and family, Twitter has really quieted down for me.

I've got a couple new puppies lined up for my August "Dog Days of Summer" assignment and am curious to see if any of them turn out to be worth keeping around for more.
   Email: ForMistressMagick *at* yahoo *dot* com  and "beg for it" to join in! ;-)


Coming up next:
How I had a boy who was guilty of borrowing his ex-partners' panties for self-pleasuring purposes help design his own written punishment. ;-)

What do you find the most sexy about a man dressed in lingerie??

I have a fetish for the contrast of what we see as masculine and feminine, and there's nothing sexier than a nice hard man covered in soft, delicate lace.

I especially love opaque black panties or thong with a black lace garter belt and black lace-topped stockings -- the lace frames the "package" and shows off the buns, while the panties cling in such a way that hints at what is underneath.

Photo: Censored version of a pic that I took of "the pantyboy" over a year ago.
Those yummy black/silver glittery panties are NOT opaque. Worn over my favorite garter stockings.

#DailyPanties

I delight in getting daily (or as frequent as possible) panty reports from my pantyboys and sissy gurls. While, they certainly evolved out of my Valentine's and other panty-wearing assignments, I think they officially started a couple years ago with dena. She actually sent me daily morning and evening lingerie reports, including which stockings and bra she was wearing under her very masculine workclothes, and which gown or nightie she changed into in the evening. Occasionally, I would select her lingerie for the next day or have her change during our chats, but at other times, I enjoyed seeing what she selected and why.

Then came the pantyboy, who sent me a panty pic after he showered each day. If he didn't have a chance to take it at home before work, he'd sneak in to the washroom there and send me one from his phone. ;-) He had hundreds of panties, so I challenged him to never wear the same pair twice, and I have quite a gallery of his pics.

jezi has been doing panty reports as close to daily as her schedule allows for the past year. I've been mentoring her on writing detailed descriptions, which should include the color, style/cut and fabric of the panties, as well as details of the design, such as the placement, color and style of any trim, edging, lace, ruffles, buttons, bows, etc. First, I like to try to visualize the panties from her description, then I review a pic if she has one, and suggest additions and changes to the description. She can be a bit shy about tweeting her reports, but loves it when I mention her, so I sometimes tweet my own edited versions.

Of course, as part of their training, all three of them learned my favorite colors and styles, and began to buy and select lingerie in the colors and styles that I preferred on them.  dena and I had matching nightwear. The pantyboy often wore pink and black together... pink for him and black for me... with sexy lacings and ribbons. With jezi, purple has grown to be "our color", and we have matching peignoir sets as well as panties.

I'm proud to be able to say that I've also inspired sillydollyanne and others on Twitter to begin tweeting their daily panty reports. And with jezi and bella both offline for a bit, the others are stepping up to fill in, making sure that my delight continues. :-)

With so many good gurls and naughty boys tweeting, I've decided to establish the hashtag #DailyPanties for daily panty reports. I also set up a Twibe which will automatically collect unprotected tweets with the proper hashtag, although they may take up to 24 hours to show up there. If your tweets are protected, make sure to add @Mistress_Magick to your tweet unless you are sure that I'm following you. (I do intentionally keep the list of those that I follow very short so that I can easily keep up with them.)

I'm looking forward to reading your reports so please spread the word about the #DailyPanties hashtag, and use it. The more the merrier!

And, in case you're wondering, I just changed into a fresh pair of the panties pictured above. I originally purchased 10 pairs because I wanted something sexy for everyday wear.