Monday, June 11, 2012

UK Bra Fitting Links & Info
by sophie

sophie recently completed a punishment for me which involved buying her first bra! I'll be publishing her Shopping and Punishment Reports at InHerService.com, but I thought you might also enjoy reading some of her Research Reports, and that they might provide some resources for others who might be thinking of taking the "plunge" [pun intended]. I think reading sophie's notes also help show how confusing fitting a bra can be, and my so many women are wearing the wrong size bra.
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Hi Mistress,


I have read some information and watched some video clips on bra fitting and types.

I thought this video was the best one, it covers measuring, checking you have the correct fit and the different types and how to put your bra on:
http://www.figleaves.com/uk/fitting_room.asp?cat=234

I have learnt a little about the different types, Mistress, and as you require me to have cleavage then would these be the better types for me to look at? Plunge? Uplift? Balconette (like a corset)? These three help raise or enchance cleavage. Figleaves describe a plunge as a perfect partner for a sexy low cut dress.


Again this Marks and Spencer video covers measuring and info on how to put a bra on:
http://www.marksandspencer.com/How-to-Get-Perfect-Fit-Lingerie-Fit-Style-Guide-Lingerie-Underwear-Womens/b/57538031?ie=UTF8&ie=UTF8?ie=UTF8&pf_rd_r=0Y02WQD0APEX41DC1K09&pf_rd_m=A2BO0OYVBKIQJM&pf_rd_t=101&pf_rd_i=200078031&pf_rd_p=475115433&pf_rd_s=left-nav-2

I found these breast enhancers and wondered if they might be useful to make me a little more cleavage, Mistress? I might even be able to find some that aren't as expensive:
http://www.marksandspencer.com/M-S-Woman-Silicone-Enhancers/dp/B003J5HAPQ

Another video, basically they said to measure just under the breast to get size and then add 4 or 5 inches. How to ensure it is fitted correctly: when wearing it the back line should be level and not be able to be pulled more than 2 inch away from the skin, the shoulder staps should not dig in, the breast should be contained by the cup and the underwire needs to be under the breast - if they aren't, use a bigger cup size - the centre and underwire should sit flat agaist the body:
http://www.marisota.co.uk/shop/page?pageId=4773&cm_re=FSP Homepage-_-S9-_-New bra videos&promo=6200&cm_mmc_o=7BBTkwCjCebMz 1z KbMzCjCPBBflCjCW-&gclid=CNaHjZnevLACFYQMfAodUVtfng


It also said that if back band size changes so does the cup size , so if the back band goes down one size the cup goes up one. The cups are sized relative to the band, so if you were to try a smaller band size, but keep the same cup size, the cups would be too small.
According to this site I should be a 40AA: 
http://www.whatsmybrasize.co.uk/

It advises if you measure an odd figure add 5 inches and if even figure add four to get your back size measurement. I measured 35 inch under bust and bust size 36 inch so should be backband 40 and cup AA, to get the cup size subtract the band size from the bust measurement. So I am a minus :-( I guess AA is the smallest size you can get.


Pretty much the same as the above ones:
http://www.amplebosom.com/measuring-guide.php

However this one doesn't appear to add the 5 or 4 when giving working out the cup size
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090628083540AAn1Tta

And for sizing this one says don't add anything for odd measurements. I could be one band size above or below.
http://www.wikihow.com/Measure-Your-Bra-Size


So for my cup size I would go with what you suggested - no more than a C - as I obviously don't have any bust.

Thank you,

sophie

Tuesday, June 5, 2012

Cock Ring Photos Needed

Did that get your attention? I do know how much you boys like to show off your tool and your toys!

I'm looking for a photo that could be used for the cover of my upcoming (NPI) cock ring book, as well as other photos for possible use inside it. The cover should NOT be a cock shot, and in fact here's a couple pics that I know that I need which aren't:

- A picture of a shiny, heavy, metal cock ring pictured on a bed/pillow of soft colorful silk/satin, preferably purple.

- A picture of a set of three basic, black rubber cock rings arranged in some interesting way. They could be on the same silk, but don't have to be.

I can't pay more than a few dollars, but if I use your pic(s), I will give you credit in my upcoming book, including a link to your web page.

Email: ForMistressMagick *at* yahoo *dot* com if you are interested.

Pictures must be clear and good quality, with a reasonably high resolution. I'm beginning with an ebook, but might want to do a print version later. And, of course, they must be your own work, and you must have the ability to grant me the right to use them.

Saturday, May 26, 2012

Chat with Me on Ingenio

Do you want to talk to someone about D/s, female-led relationships, male submission, being a sissy, crossdressing, chastity or another kink?

Are you trying to find a way to tell your girlfriend or wife about your interests?

Maybe She has questions?

Or maybe you just need to talk to a strong, caring woman who understands and has experience with a boy or gurl like you?


Don't want to have to call a phone sex site to do it? That's okay, I'm not sure if I want to be listed on one!

I set up the Niteflirt account years ago, but I primarily use it for calls with boys who had already been emailing/tweeting with me, and to send written assignments, like those that I have for puppies. I've rarely just logged in as available because I'm not interested in being used by 1 minute wankers.

I want boys and gurls who really want to talk to me so that I can get to know them and vice versa. After all, the more I understand you, the more I am able to get inside your head and find the places that we both enjoy!

Recently, I have had some great calls from a couple different crossdressers and sissies on Niteflirt, who I'm growing closer to with every call. (And, yes, that is "the pantyboy" in the picture - dressed in lingerie that I bought him!) So I've been making myself a bit more available there. However, if you are interested in talking to me, especially when I'm offline, it's best to email me first to see if I'm around for a call (ForMistressMagick *at* yahoo *dot* com), because I might be interested in talking to you, but not in the mood to be available for just anyone who calls.

Niteflirt used to have a system by which a caller could ask to schedule an appointment, which gave me a lot more control over who and when I spoke to callers. I also know that many of you would like to call me just to talk - for advice and support. And some of you would like to have someone that your wife or girlfriend could talk to.

So I've set up a listing on another site, Ingenio, that allows scheduled appointments and even Instant Messages. This is an advice site where you can talk to doctors, lawyers, mechanics, plumbers, etc. It is not an Adult site. In fact, if some guy calls me there and is obviously a wanker, I have to tell him that it isn't that kind of site, or I could be kicked off the site myself. It has a lot more features, and I'm more likely to be logging in there. I can even set it to let me know if someone wants to talk with me and find out how long you can wait so that I can log in while I'm working on other things and take the call after I am finished. It's so much more civilized! And the way that a real Domme should be treated.

Use the buttons below to IM or me via Ingenio. If you are new to the site, you will get free minutes and I'll get a bonus for referring you. I'll also give you more free minutes as a thank you for helping me test it out.

Since I'm just getting started there and don't have any feedback yet, I've set the per minute rate really low so it's the perfect time to call - especially if you've always wanted to hear my voice. :-)


            

Remember: this is an advice site, NOT a PSO Site, so behave yourself!

If we are talking and you moaning and breathing heavy, want me to describe my feet, share a fantasy or tell you what to wear, you need to ask permission to call me on Niteflirt instead. Understood?

Thursday, May 24, 2012

"In Hysteria, Hugh Dancy revs up the first vibrator"

I just saw this article at straight.com and had to share it with you. I'm so glad to see that Hysteria, which I first blogged about in September, is still on track. Let me know if you've seen anything about when/where we'll be able to see it here in the States.

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